The definition of humility is, "the quality of having a modest or low view of one's importance". The capacity to have humility will help you gain significant amounts of valuable knowledge, from a variety of sources wherever you may be. It's an essential personal quality that will absolutely change your life for the better.
Is there a 'best time' to show humility you may ask? This quality can be used whenever you need to - but particularly when you're in a situation where you need to learn from others. None of us have all the knowledge we will ever need to lead a successful life. So, no matter the physical appearance, social status or levels of wealth others may have, as long as we understand this vital point then you've already begun to open the door to greater intuition, wisdom and knowledge.
It's ok to accept that you don't know it all - and you shouldn't need to feel that you have to either. By not having humility, you're reducing your ability to grow into the person you could really become. Your relationships with others may also probably start to suffer - especially if they begin to feel your lack of humility is damaging to them and their possible options too.
The key to humility is to genuinely listen to others - and not prejudge them (and what they have to say) by what you see or think you know about them. You just don't know the great wealth of wisdom you could be missing out on. So, developing humility is the first thing you need to do in order to start your journey to becoming all that you were meant to be.
I wish you peace, success & happiness!
Is there a 'best time' to show humility you may ask? This quality can be used whenever you need to - but particularly when you're in a situation where you need to learn from others. None of us have all the knowledge we will ever need to lead a successful life. So, no matter the physical appearance, social status or levels of wealth others may have, as long as we understand this vital point then you've already begun to open the door to greater intuition, wisdom and knowledge.
It's ok to accept that you don't know it all - and you shouldn't need to feel that you have to either. By not having humility, you're reducing your ability to grow into the person you could really become. Your relationships with others may also probably start to suffer - especially if they begin to feel your lack of humility is damaging to them and their possible options too.
The key to humility is to genuinely listen to others - and not prejudge them (and what they have to say) by what you see or think you know about them. You just don't know the great wealth of wisdom you could be missing out on. So, developing humility is the first thing you need to do in order to start your journey to becoming all that you were meant to be.
I wish you peace, success & happiness!
Patience. Such an understated quality that's so overlooked as a key portion of building success. It’s your ability to consistently work towards your objective with the conviction that you’ll get there in due time - no matter what. Whether rain or shine; storm or cold; pain or slumber – you know you’re not going to allow any of these barriers to stop you from doing what you need to do when you have to.
Of course, this level of perseverance requires a concrete level of discipline; focus and a solid belief that it'll all be well worth it in the end. As long as you're persistent and dedicated, you can rest assured that you'll continue to move closer to your goal and (perhaps more interestingly) also learn more about yourself in the process.
You're probably thinking, “how can learning about myself be more important than reaching my long sought after dream?” Well, even though you may be making every effort to reach your goal, there’s no guarantee you’ll ever get there! As long as you’re sincerely working towards reaching the objective, you’re doing all that you can really do. So, if there’s no guarantee you’ll achieve your objective, the only other thing you're guaranteed is experiencing an increase (or decrease) in your ability to be patient.
If you press on through each of the imminent trials, your patience will continue to grow. But, if you start wanting your success much sooner than it’s probably deserved (perhaps without putting in the necessary level of planning, preparation and work) then this is where you may begin to feel increasing frustration, desperation and bitterness at a perceived lack of results. You could then quickly become demotivated and then possibly decide to give up. All of that past effort has now completely gone to waste.
Having little or no patience is certainly a major factor for disaster. It makes all of the difference between those who achieve their dreams and those who don't. You can win - you just have to hold on.
I wish you peace, success & happiness!
Of course, this level of perseverance requires a concrete level of discipline; focus and a solid belief that it'll all be well worth it in the end. As long as you're persistent and dedicated, you can rest assured that you'll continue to move closer to your goal and (perhaps more interestingly) also learn more about yourself in the process.
You're probably thinking, “how can learning about myself be more important than reaching my long sought after dream?” Well, even though you may be making every effort to reach your goal, there’s no guarantee you’ll ever get there! As long as you’re sincerely working towards reaching the objective, you’re doing all that you can really do. So, if there’s no guarantee you’ll achieve your objective, the only other thing you're guaranteed is experiencing an increase (or decrease) in your ability to be patient.
If you press on through each of the imminent trials, your patience will continue to grow. But, if you start wanting your success much sooner than it’s probably deserved (perhaps without putting in the necessary level of planning, preparation and work) then this is where you may begin to feel increasing frustration, desperation and bitterness at a perceived lack of results. You could then quickly become demotivated and then possibly decide to give up. All of that past effort has now completely gone to waste.
Having little or no patience is certainly a major factor for disaster. It makes all of the difference between those who achieve their dreams and those who don't. You can win - you just have to hold on.
I wish you peace, success & happiness!
Do you think your diet plays any part in your journey towards peace, success and happiness? No? Yes? Well, it most certainly does. Everything you physically do requires some form of energy to do it. This energy mostly comes from the solids and liquids you eat and drink. These choices will either give you enough energy to complete your required tasks – or leave you short. Eating wholesome, nutritious and vitamin packed food automatically gives your body the power to do what it needs at any given time.
On the other hand, eating 'fast food' that might appear to look good (but is really quite low in nourishment) will only give you enough energy for an equally short (or fast) length of time. Soon, you’ll start to feel drained and have to start eating and drinking all over again. Too much of this ‘start-stop’ eating’ soon begins to slow your progress and eventual achievements. After all, how can you be genuinely working towards success if you're constantly in and out of the fridge?
Although this blog can't cover every aspect of good food and drink in detail, you can easily find out what’s best for you to eat by doing your own research. There are lots of sources available where you can get plenty of food and diet facts to help you. Yet, an often overlooked matter is being able to maintain this – in the face of what appears to be a galaxy of junk food and fizzy drink adverts galore. These can influence you to start (or maintain) a diet that ultimately does you more harm than good.
This type of food and drink can eventually become hugely addictive, due to the excessive levels of salt and sugar they contain. Once your body gets used to this, it can become very hard to stop consuming them. Many experts believe they can play a significant role in creating poor physical health, stress and levels of motivation. You can stop this from happening by eating healthily.
Once you take this vital step, you can happily look forward to a stimulating and healthy journey towards the achievement of every goal you set and desire.
I wish you peace, success & happiness!
On the other hand, eating 'fast food' that might appear to look good (but is really quite low in nourishment) will only give you enough energy for an equally short (or fast) length of time. Soon, you’ll start to feel drained and have to start eating and drinking all over again. Too much of this ‘start-stop’ eating’ soon begins to slow your progress and eventual achievements. After all, how can you be genuinely working towards success if you're constantly in and out of the fridge?
Although this blog can't cover every aspect of good food and drink in detail, you can easily find out what’s best for you to eat by doing your own research. There are lots of sources available where you can get plenty of food and diet facts to help you. Yet, an often overlooked matter is being able to maintain this – in the face of what appears to be a galaxy of junk food and fizzy drink adverts galore. These can influence you to start (or maintain) a diet that ultimately does you more harm than good.
This type of food and drink can eventually become hugely addictive, due to the excessive levels of salt and sugar they contain. Once your body gets used to this, it can become very hard to stop consuming them. Many experts believe they can play a significant role in creating poor physical health, stress and levels of motivation. You can stop this from happening by eating healthily.
Once you take this vital step, you can happily look forward to a stimulating and healthy journey towards the achievement of every goal you set and desire.
I wish you peace, success & happiness!
With so many problems affecting so many people all around the world, I’m sure it makes you often think – when will it all end? It appears that ‘tit for tat’ acts of instant retaliation is the standard practice for everyone who believes they’ve been wronged. Generally, as far as many examples of historic retribution goes, I guess it is! It’s only natural for you to want to see the hurt and pain you’ve experienced - is equally felt by those who have directly caused it.
Recompense (compensation given for loss or harm suffered) can also provide some form of relief, as the victim receives finance for the mistreatment they've suffered. Although this won't be able to completely heal the damage done, it's generally hoped that it may help to reduce some of the grief.
However, another approach that has been increasingly encouraged in recent times is for the victims to show absolute forgiveness. This means that they agree to totally forgive the actions of the perpetrator and, as a result, can apparently just 'let it go' without necessarily requiring retaliation or recompense. It sounds like a tall order - but does this work? Is this really possible - or is it just a tidy opportunity to 'sweep it all under the carpet' and move on?
Without knowing that justice has been served, the victim (and those related to them) may be left in a very tormented and bitter place. There simply has to be some form of fairness or the victims (and indeed perhaps the rest of society) will never be able to truly rest.
So, retaliation, recompense or forgiveness is what's available for victims. Depending on the way you live your life, you'll choose whichever option suits you best. Perhaps, once it's clear there'll be a severe price to be paid for mistreating others, then these options can act as a preventative measure to those who ultimately seek to do this.
I wish you peace, success & happiness!
Recompense (compensation given for loss or harm suffered) can also provide some form of relief, as the victim receives finance for the mistreatment they've suffered. Although this won't be able to completely heal the damage done, it's generally hoped that it may help to reduce some of the grief.
However, another approach that has been increasingly encouraged in recent times is for the victims to show absolute forgiveness. This means that they agree to totally forgive the actions of the perpetrator and, as a result, can apparently just 'let it go' without necessarily requiring retaliation or recompense. It sounds like a tall order - but does this work? Is this really possible - or is it just a tidy opportunity to 'sweep it all under the carpet' and move on?
Without knowing that justice has been served, the victim (and those related to them) may be left in a very tormented and bitter place. There simply has to be some form of fairness or the victims (and indeed perhaps the rest of society) will never be able to truly rest.
So, retaliation, recompense or forgiveness is what's available for victims. Depending on the way you live your life, you'll choose whichever option suits you best. Perhaps, once it's clear there'll be a severe price to be paid for mistreating others, then these options can act as a preventative measure to those who ultimately seek to do this.
I wish you peace, success & happiness!
Have you ever thought of the possible links between seeking success - and your ability to control your most essential desires? Well, if there is a link, then being able to recognise it (and then turn it to your benefit) will give you a great advantage in your ongoing quest for achievement. So, that being said, what are some of your major needs?
Well, three of your greatest physical needs are food, drink and gaining sexual pleasure. As a result, the pursuit of these can largely influence your ability and the speed and time in which you can potentially reach your goal. The more time you focus your energies on trying to fulfil these needs – the less time you have to spend obtaining your dreams. Yes, there should always be balance - and that's why any imbalances as this stage is likely to have distinct repercussions.
Just imagine this, you've got the chance of a lifetime to reach a significant milestone in your journey towards success - but you also equally have the opportunity to engage in the type of sexual encounter you can only fantasise about! What are you going to do? You can't have both - and the 'clock is ticking'? Your answer to this situation is a direct reflection of your levels of will power and your genuine commitment to succeed. Being able to control and restrain your sexual desire will absolutely change the outcome of this scenario.
The historical accounts of those who have had significant success will often highlight their insistence that self discipline and will power has played a major role in their resultant achievements. They will often relay stories of how they found themselves in circumstances where, if not for their strict self discipline, they would've missed out on critical opportunities that eventually helped to make them the success stories they became.
So, if it worked for them - it can also work for you. Without doubt, one of the biggest enemies to your success will often be your own poor levels of self discipline and your capacity to consistently control your needs and desires.
I wish you peace, success & happiness!
Well, three of your greatest physical needs are food, drink and gaining sexual pleasure. As a result, the pursuit of these can largely influence your ability and the speed and time in which you can potentially reach your goal. The more time you focus your energies on trying to fulfil these needs – the less time you have to spend obtaining your dreams. Yes, there should always be balance - and that's why any imbalances as this stage is likely to have distinct repercussions.
Just imagine this, you've got the chance of a lifetime to reach a significant milestone in your journey towards success - but you also equally have the opportunity to engage in the type of sexual encounter you can only fantasise about! What are you going to do? You can't have both - and the 'clock is ticking'? Your answer to this situation is a direct reflection of your levels of will power and your genuine commitment to succeed. Being able to control and restrain your sexual desire will absolutely change the outcome of this scenario.
The historical accounts of those who have had significant success will often highlight their insistence that self discipline and will power has played a major role in their resultant achievements. They will often relay stories of how they found themselves in circumstances where, if not for their strict self discipline, they would've missed out on critical opportunities that eventually helped to make them the success stories they became.
So, if it worked for them - it can also work for you. Without doubt, one of the biggest enemies to your success will often be your own poor levels of self discipline and your capacity to consistently control your needs and desires.
I wish you peace, success & happiness!
Just how dedicated are you to ensuring that you show utter commitment to all that you do and not let your negative thoughts get the better of you? This not only shows your enthusiasm to achieving the objective – but it also shows your ability to enter into doing something and fulfilling it no matter what. It’s perhaps the ultimate test that you can ever give to yourself.
Giving in to your doubts, fears, uncertainties etc. will certainly stop you from starting or continuing on with reaching your goals. Allowing these negative thoughts to override your positive thoughts is where the whole problem begins. Do you know that one of the main reasons you begin to feel guilt, is because you know you’ve not done what you should’ve – or could’ve done - when you needed to?
Think about it. Some of the biggest regrets you may have today can probably all be traced back to a time when you know you should have done a certain thing - but you just didn't do it. You can now potentially see just how much you would've benefited - if only you'd done it. This can then lead to you now being filled with varying degrees of self reproach and remorse. You've let yourself down and missed out. A fantastic opportunity has been lost - just because you allowed your negative thoughts to prevail.
The road to your success will be filled with obstacles, opposition and - even enemies. Why shouldn't it be? You've got to be tested in order to see if you're truly worthy don't you? By knowing this, you don't need to add any other complications by being yet another enemy - this time to yourself. It all ties into your capacity to repel those negative thoughts that attempt to persuade you to give up – or to not even try!
Overcoming these negative thoughts as soon as they start is where you’ll begin to gain the unshakeable self confidence and esteem that will change your life for the better, for good.
I wish you peace, success & happiness!
Giving in to your doubts, fears, uncertainties etc. will certainly stop you from starting or continuing on with reaching your goals. Allowing these negative thoughts to override your positive thoughts is where the whole problem begins. Do you know that one of the main reasons you begin to feel guilt, is because you know you’ve not done what you should’ve – or could’ve done - when you needed to?
Think about it. Some of the biggest regrets you may have today can probably all be traced back to a time when you know you should have done a certain thing - but you just didn't do it. You can now potentially see just how much you would've benefited - if only you'd done it. This can then lead to you now being filled with varying degrees of self reproach and remorse. You've let yourself down and missed out. A fantastic opportunity has been lost - just because you allowed your negative thoughts to prevail.
The road to your success will be filled with obstacles, opposition and - even enemies. Why shouldn't it be? You've got to be tested in order to see if you're truly worthy don't you? By knowing this, you don't need to add any other complications by being yet another enemy - this time to yourself. It all ties into your capacity to repel those negative thoughts that attempt to persuade you to give up – or to not even try!
Overcoming these negative thoughts as soon as they start is where you’ll begin to gain the unshakeable self confidence and esteem that will change your life for the better, for good.
I wish you peace, success & happiness!
How you spend your time, wealth and energy will always reflect your direction in life. Do you spend much of it on fun and frolics - having as much enjoyment as can be for as long as possible - or is there more to what you see your life’s purpose as being? Whichever way you choose to go, the end result will speak volumes about you as a person and what you life's purpose has been.
Many people spend those resources quite desperately in an attempt to fill (what seems to them to be) a constant longing for ‘inner completion’ or peace of mind. This desire only leads them to trying all sorts of hedonistic experiences in order to quench this uncomfortable sensation. What they don’t realise is that spending a potion of these same resources on helping others is the way to ultimately help them gain that inner peace. Knowing that you've given a proportionate amount of what you have to try and help those who are less fortunate, is one of the best ways to gain this inner peace. You've done what you know you should do. You've not let yourself down by not doing it.
So, why aren’t more people doing this then? Well, due to the negative influences from a variety of sources that we’ve previously spoken about, many people question why they should help anybody else. Conceited notions of, "I got to the top all by myself. Nobody helped me one bit. I'm a self made man / woman etc". reveals the insecure lives and mindsets of those who use these deluded statements - and it's also quite humorous to hear too!
Maintaining this self-centered direction will probably keep them trapped into trying to find inner peace for the rest of their lives. Constant pleasure seeking might appear to be fun at the time – but as the thrill of the moment passes, they return to that same old blank stare asking, ‘so now what’? But, it doesn’t have to be this way.
I wish you peace, success & happiness!
Many people spend those resources quite desperately in an attempt to fill (what seems to them to be) a constant longing for ‘inner completion’ or peace of mind. This desire only leads them to trying all sorts of hedonistic experiences in order to quench this uncomfortable sensation. What they don’t realise is that spending a potion of these same resources on helping others is the way to ultimately help them gain that inner peace. Knowing that you've given a proportionate amount of what you have to try and help those who are less fortunate, is one of the best ways to gain this inner peace. You've done what you know you should do. You've not let yourself down by not doing it.
So, why aren’t more people doing this then? Well, due to the negative influences from a variety of sources that we’ve previously spoken about, many people question why they should help anybody else. Conceited notions of, "I got to the top all by myself. Nobody helped me one bit. I'm a self made man / woman etc". reveals the insecure lives and mindsets of those who use these deluded statements - and it's also quite humorous to hear too!
Maintaining this self-centered direction will probably keep them trapped into trying to find inner peace for the rest of their lives. Constant pleasure seeking might appear to be fun at the time – but as the thrill of the moment passes, they return to that same old blank stare asking, ‘so now what’? But, it doesn’t have to be this way.
I wish you peace, success & happiness!
Giving what you can to help those who are less able is a wonderful tradition that’s a central part of human life. Through this selfless act many lives can be helped for the better to grow, flourish and succeed. As a result of this act of kindness, you also get an overwhelming feeling of moral honour (you've done the right thing) as a result of doing something to help - and it feels good. But, what of those who only 'give for fame'. Does their charity also mean as much? You might say, 'charity is charity' – but is it really though?
Through our acts of giving we offer those who, for whatever reason can’t do it all by themselves, a better chance in life. This is a noble and principled position to take. But, if you do this only to be publicly seen as being sumptuous, lavish or to just build your own glory, then that’s when your ‘charity’ becomes something quite different. You know you've only done this for your own sake - and not for the sake of helping those in genuine need. It can therefore, have no sincere impact on the lives of others - because it was never about other people in the first place!
Giving with the ulterior motive of primarily bettering yourself makes the act empty, vain and meaningless. In extreme cases, t could even possibly lead to hostile attempts to disrupt the lives of the beneficiaries - in order to extort some type of ‘pay back’ e.g., I've given you this, so now what's in it for me?. You can clearly see that this has nothing at all to now do with charity, but is something much more sinister.
There’s no lasting achievement to come from this type of 'giving to receive'. Soon, it'll become obvious what's really happening to others and you'll be fully exposed for what you really are. No amount of giving will be able to change or stop that one! So, give because you truly want to - and not for anything else.
I wish you peace, success & happiness!
Through our acts of giving we offer those who, for whatever reason can’t do it all by themselves, a better chance in life. This is a noble and principled position to take. But, if you do this only to be publicly seen as being sumptuous, lavish or to just build your own glory, then that’s when your ‘charity’ becomes something quite different. You know you've only done this for your own sake - and not for the sake of helping those in genuine need. It can therefore, have no sincere impact on the lives of others - because it was never about other people in the first place!
Giving with the ulterior motive of primarily bettering yourself makes the act empty, vain and meaningless. In extreme cases, t could even possibly lead to hostile attempts to disrupt the lives of the beneficiaries - in order to extort some type of ‘pay back’ e.g., I've given you this, so now what's in it for me?. You can clearly see that this has nothing at all to now do with charity, but is something much more sinister.
There’s no lasting achievement to come from this type of 'giving to receive'. Soon, it'll become obvious what's really happening to others and you'll be fully exposed for what you really are. No amount of giving will be able to change or stop that one! So, give because you truly want to - and not for anything else.
I wish you peace, success & happiness!
What could make you seek something that you already know is no good for you? I suppose the only thing would be if you were being tricked - or if you weren't in the right frame of mind when you made the final decision. These circumstances could largely be out of your control - especially if you were in a very difficult personal situation or were feeling particularly low at the time.
To then willingly do this when you're not being deceived - and you're in a perfect frame of mind - would be completely senseless. There are plenty of things out there for you to spend (waste) your good money and time on - thinking that it's going to make some significant difference to your life. It's only after you get bored with it that you end up thinking to yourself, so now what? It's just been a diversion. It's stopped you from doing what you really need to do in order to truly progress.
Once you're aware of this possibility happening, you should be able to view what comes to you in your life much more clearly. Some things will clearly focus you - other things will quietly distract you. So, always aim to spend on those positive and progressive chances that are clearly beneficial to your success journey - and not on those things that are merely a valueless distraction of your wealth, energy and (perhaps the most valuable) time.
I wish you peace, success & happiness!
To then willingly do this when you're not being deceived - and you're in a perfect frame of mind - would be completely senseless. There are plenty of things out there for you to spend (waste) your good money and time on - thinking that it's going to make some significant difference to your life. It's only after you get bored with it that you end up thinking to yourself, so now what? It's just been a diversion. It's stopped you from doing what you really need to do in order to truly progress.
Once you're aware of this possibility happening, you should be able to view what comes to you in your life much more clearly. Some things will clearly focus you - other things will quietly distract you. So, always aim to spend on those positive and progressive chances that are clearly beneficial to your success journey - and not on those things that are merely a valueless distraction of your wealth, energy and (perhaps the most valuable) time.
I wish you peace, success & happiness!
Two for the price of one? I remember a song I liked years many years ago which used that phrase as part of the lyrics. Sounded really haunting at the time, but I never really thought about this being the possible basis for some very unfair activities. I guess it wouldn’t really matter too much (and I’m sure most wouldn’t mind either) if you’re given one extra for free after a purchase!
But, what if you’re made to give back two - even if you only originally got one? Just how much can this ruin your efforts to live a balanced life?. Just think about it, you’re given a single item – but you have to give two back in return. Two, three, five, seven. The number doesn’t really matter. It’s the amount of difficulties this kind of arrangement can result in for those who are desperate enough to fall into it. So, what would you do?
The amount of lives ruined in an arrangement like this should be a major concern but would you say, “well, it’s their own fault and somebody’s got to benefit from their misfortune. So, why not let that somebody be me?” You could certainly make a ‘killing’ in the long term - but what else gets killed in the process? How about your ability to remain at peace with yourself, as you do whatever it takes to wrest that little extra amount from the vulnerable at any cost?
How about your basic compassion, empathy and humanity as you grow to care less and less about their lives and more and more about ‘the bottom line’ – which is satisfying your greed? It doesn’t paint a very pretty or appealing picture of you does it? Does this sound like a person who believes the positive lifestyle is truly the way to go? It's a complete and utter contradiction.
The suffering you give, will be the suffering you receive. That’s what lies at the end of this particular road.
I wish you peace, success & happiness!
But, what if you’re made to give back two - even if you only originally got one? Just how much can this ruin your efforts to live a balanced life?. Just think about it, you’re given a single item – but you have to give two back in return. Two, three, five, seven. The number doesn’t really matter. It’s the amount of difficulties this kind of arrangement can result in for those who are desperate enough to fall into it. So, what would you do?
The amount of lives ruined in an arrangement like this should be a major concern but would you say, “well, it’s their own fault and somebody’s got to benefit from their misfortune. So, why not let that somebody be me?” You could certainly make a ‘killing’ in the long term - but what else gets killed in the process? How about your ability to remain at peace with yourself, as you do whatever it takes to wrest that little extra amount from the vulnerable at any cost?
How about your basic compassion, empathy and humanity as you grow to care less and less about their lives and more and more about ‘the bottom line’ – which is satisfying your greed? It doesn’t paint a very pretty or appealing picture of you does it? Does this sound like a person who believes the positive lifestyle is truly the way to go? It's a complete and utter contradiction.
The suffering you give, will be the suffering you receive. That’s what lies at the end of this particular road.
I wish you peace, success & happiness!
I wonder how many good friends and family members have fallen out for years – if not for life – just because they had a great idea to do something together? This desire and enthusiasm to go to the next level is truly commendable, but it can be so easily spoiled by one, simple thing - they didn’t put into writing what they should’ve done at the right time.
If it's a business proposal then having the original idea is brilliant and possibly may even be a stroke of genius, but it’s called ‘business’ for a reason. One of the main reasons many business people fall out is because of money. Unless explicit amounts are made clear and when it's to be received, given or used etc. the chances of disagreements only magnify. You can see that this incredibly important aspect should never be overlooked.
Let’s face it, a great idea without finances may just be destined to stay in that 'great ideas notepad' left on the shelf in your spare room, which you occasionally look at from time to time thinking to yourself, ‘if only’. Filling your mind with what ifs and other needless worries may even lead you to conclude that it’s an impossible dream - so why not just leave it at that? A dream? Well, this particular story doesn’t necessarily have to end like this.
Now that you know recording full details of your plans is absolutely essential (no matter how big or small) the way you advance can now be based upon clarity and precision. Ensuring that you make formal, witnessed business contracts which clearly lay out agreed upon responsibilities, requirements and expectations etc. of all involved, will be a central step to ensure your business; family ties and friendships stay secure and last for a lifetime.
I wish you peace, success & happiness!
If it's a business proposal then having the original idea is brilliant and possibly may even be a stroke of genius, but it’s called ‘business’ for a reason. One of the main reasons many business people fall out is because of money. Unless explicit amounts are made clear and when it's to be received, given or used etc. the chances of disagreements only magnify. You can see that this incredibly important aspect should never be overlooked.
Let’s face it, a great idea without finances may just be destined to stay in that 'great ideas notepad' left on the shelf in your spare room, which you occasionally look at from time to time thinking to yourself, ‘if only’. Filling your mind with what ifs and other needless worries may even lead you to conclude that it’s an impossible dream - so why not just leave it at that? A dream? Well, this particular story doesn’t necessarily have to end like this.
Now that you know recording full details of your plans is absolutely essential (no matter how big or small) the way you advance can now be based upon clarity and precision. Ensuring that you make formal, witnessed business contracts which clearly lay out agreed upon responsibilities, requirements and expectations etc. of all involved, will be a central step to ensure your business; family ties and friendships stay secure and last for a lifetime.
I wish you peace, success & happiness!
With so much information out there about all sorts of things, it's almost impossible to totally accept what you may find as an absolute truth. This stems from the most simplest of issues to major topics of the day. Opinions get mixed up with facts and what are presented as facts, could often just be mere opinion.
In this age of information overload, there are many people who really just don't know what to believe, but will state and endorse what they've been led to believe. Having little or no idea about significant topics can become a handicap in many circles - especially if you've got no real point of reference to base your perspectives upon. In times like this, it's a informational 'free for all'.
Considering all of this, being careful who you choose to believe is vital for successful living. Others may have just as little an idea as you have - but may be more verbose and confident with it. But, this doesn't make them right. The values, principles and standards within this guide will give you a basis to save you from the confusion and uncertainty of believing whatsoever about whomsoever - and then probably regretting doing so afterwards.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
In this age of information overload, there are many people who really just don't know what to believe, but will state and endorse what they've been led to believe. Having little or no idea about significant topics can become a handicap in many circles - especially if you've got no real point of reference to base your perspectives upon. In times like this, it's a informational 'free for all'.
Considering all of this, being careful who you choose to believe is vital for successful living. Others may have just as little an idea as you have - but may be more verbose and confident with it. But, this doesn't make them right. The values, principles and standards within this guide will give you a basis to save you from the confusion and uncertainty of believing whatsoever about whomsoever - and then probably regretting doing so afterwards.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
The whole issue of doing what you're supposed to do is something that is tremendously pivotal in successful living. Keeping your duty by doing what you're expected adds to your own levels of self confidence - and also how others have confidence in you and your ability to do what needs to be done.
By doing this, you'll soon get to be recognised as being reliable, dedicated and dependable - qualities that truly add value to your life and the lives of others. By doing what you're supposed to do (and always achieving it) you automatically increase your self esteem; your peace of mind and the confidence others have in you.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
By doing this, you'll soon get to be recognised as being reliable, dedicated and dependable - qualities that truly add value to your life and the lives of others. By doing what you're supposed to do (and always achieving it) you automatically increase your self esteem; your peace of mind and the confidence others have in you.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
Friendship is an aspect of life that is so special to many of us. The friends you choose to keep are a true indicator of you as a person and what you stand for. Your real friends will always be a reflection of you, your values, beliefs and principles. They'll be there for you when you need them and you know that you feel great when you're around them. The fact that you're so similar is the foundation for your closeness.
There are, also, those 'fair-weather' friends. These are people who you can't genuinely rely upon - but they still have some regular contact with you. They're more complicated to understand because they may have deeper motives that drive them - and they're not always all good.
These are the 'friends' you need to be careful of as they appear to be one thing when they're with you - but quite another when they're not! They'll do their very best to secretly cause you major problems; they'll rejoice at the difficulties you go through as a result; and speak badly about you behind your back to anyone who'll listen. Envy? Jealousy? Spite? Take your pick! You may never know why they're doing this, but the outcome is still very much the same. You may even be able to 'feel' the negativity they have towards you as you decode their body language in due time..
You can't stop them from doing this to you - but you can do something to protect yourself from them. It's really simple. Stay with your real and genuine friends to avoid all of this unnecessary drama.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
There are, also, those 'fair-weather' friends. These are people who you can't genuinely rely upon - but they still have some regular contact with you. They're more complicated to understand because they may have deeper motives that drive them - and they're not always all good.
These are the 'friends' you need to be careful of as they appear to be one thing when they're with you - but quite another when they're not! They'll do their very best to secretly cause you major problems; they'll rejoice at the difficulties you go through as a result; and speak badly about you behind your back to anyone who'll listen. Envy? Jealousy? Spite? Take your pick! You may never know why they're doing this, but the outcome is still very much the same. You may even be able to 'feel' the negativity they have towards you as you decode their body language in due time..
You can't stop them from doing this to you - but you can do something to protect yourself from them. It's really simple. Stay with your real and genuine friends to avoid all of this unnecessary drama.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
Your life can generally be how you want it to be depending on how you think. As long as you can control your thoughts, you can control what you choose to do with your actions. The consistent practice of this will result in a lifetime of peace, success and happiness - or conflict, failure and sadness.
Your positive thinking can result in positive actions - as long as you choose to follow them. Conversely, your negative thinking can result in negative actions - as long as you choose to follow them. This now gives you the simple basis of how you can successfully take control of your whole life.
As long as you understand that you cannot control how others respond or react to your actions (because that's up to them - they too can also choose to be negative or positive), you'll know that you're moving towards a future and a destination that is wholly reflective of how you control your thinking.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
Your positive thinking can result in positive actions - as long as you choose to follow them. Conversely, your negative thinking can result in negative actions - as long as you choose to follow them. This now gives you the simple basis of how you can successfully take control of your whole life.
As long as you understand that you cannot control how others respond or react to your actions (because that's up to them - they too can also choose to be negative or positive), you'll know that you're moving towards a future and a destination that is wholly reflective of how you control your thinking.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
To be fully committed to the end goal of peace, success and happiness is an indication of excellence in itself.
The degree and amount of challenges you'll encounter shouldn't be underestimated, because there's no way of knowing just how many you'll face on the journey. The higher the amount of obstacles - the more you'll need to show dedication and drive to reaching this goal. This is typically the stage where you'll find that your mind will start to have an increasing number of doubts - especially when you start to see the challenges beginning to pile up.
By continually resisting and opposing these negative thoughts and impulses to 'give up; leave it for another time; don't even start' etc. at the moment they begin, will help to charge you up with all the mental energy required to be fully dedicated to achieving whatever tasks you have to complete on your way to the goal.
Excellence is underpinned by your ability to show complete dedication to what you set out to do - no matter what!
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
The degree and amount of challenges you'll encounter shouldn't be underestimated, because there's no way of knowing just how many you'll face on the journey. The higher the amount of obstacles - the more you'll need to show dedication and drive to reaching this goal. This is typically the stage where you'll find that your mind will start to have an increasing number of doubts - especially when you start to see the challenges beginning to pile up.
By continually resisting and opposing these negative thoughts and impulses to 'give up; leave it for another time; don't even start' etc. at the moment they begin, will help to charge you up with all the mental energy required to be fully dedicated to achieving whatever tasks you have to complete on your way to the goal.
Excellence is underpinned by your ability to show complete dedication to what you set out to do - no matter what!
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
What!! Surely, I've lost my mind you must be shrieking! How can there be any good in going through a situation that I've hated? But, once you seperate the emotions from the words, you'll be able to see that there is truth in it.
Your present self confidence and subsequent self esteem is directly based upon the valuable goals you've set and successfully achieved in the past. Now, I'm sure these goals were not easy to achieve and you had to go through a lot of difficulties, challenges and upset (and you possibly disliked much of it at the time) but you never gave up and you finally got there.
This is where you started to feel wonderful at the fact you went through so much with total persistence and dedication - and nothing could stand in your way. It's a beautiful feeling that fills you with a sense of greatness, abundance and power - and you deserved every second of it.
But, just think what would've happened if you'd given up (or not even started) because you could barely stand what you had to do. You'd never have become the person you are today. All that you've learned about yourself, the latent abilities you've discovered and the resilience you've developed etc. would have been left obscured. Who knows what you would've been like today - without coming through these 'bad' experiences?
So, the next time you face having to undertake a task that you'll think is going to be bad for you, 'Oppositive Think' it and focus on the good that is likely to be revealed, as you take yet another step on your journey up to where you know you belong ...
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
Your present self confidence and subsequent self esteem is directly based upon the valuable goals you've set and successfully achieved in the past. Now, I'm sure these goals were not easy to achieve and you had to go through a lot of difficulties, challenges and upset (and you possibly disliked much of it at the time) but you never gave up and you finally got there.
This is where you started to feel wonderful at the fact you went through so much with total persistence and dedication - and nothing could stand in your way. It's a beautiful feeling that fills you with a sense of greatness, abundance and power - and you deserved every second of it.
But, just think what would've happened if you'd given up (or not even started) because you could barely stand what you had to do. You'd never have become the person you are today. All that you've learned about yourself, the latent abilities you've discovered and the resilience you've developed etc. would have been left obscured. Who knows what you would've been like today - without coming through these 'bad' experiences?
So, the next time you face having to undertake a task that you'll think is going to be bad for you, 'Oppositive Think' it and focus on the good that is likely to be revealed, as you take yet another step on your journey up to where you know you belong ...
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
The use of some type of deception or ruse, in order to take advantage of others, is something we're all used to hearing about on the TV, Internet or in the newspapers. From the sly confidence trickster to the shady big name corporation, the people they prey upon end up losing their time, energy and money and usually have little (or nothing) to show for it! Their expressions of regret and despair are saddening to see and their tales of gloom, distressing. But, have the perpetrators really gained - or have they ultimately lost?
There's a cosmic law which I call 'the boomerang backlash' that dictates negative energy attracts negative energy - and positive energy attracts positive energy. So, in the context of those who use crude or elaborate ploys to benefit from others, the backlash of their negative actions will, in time, comeback to them - just like the throwing of a boomerang! As a result, they may end up facing enormous fines, long term imprisonment - or even death as a result of their cunning wiles.
Some will think (or even make out to others) that these risks are worth it - but what they don't say is that they live in the constant fear of seeing that 'boomerang' appear on the horizon, inevitably heading in their direction. They don't mention the guilt they fall asleep to and wake up with each day reminding them of what's ultimately coming.
So, they may have gained more money, assets or efforts etc. from others (and I'm sure they'll do their best to enjoy it while they can) but they know their time will soon be up and, until then, they will never truly find peace within themselves.
Is it really, really worth it in the end to gain so much - but to also lose so much at the same time? When all is said and done, I guess you're the only one who can truly answer that question ...
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
There's a cosmic law which I call 'the boomerang backlash' that dictates negative energy attracts negative energy - and positive energy attracts positive energy. So, in the context of those who use crude or elaborate ploys to benefit from others, the backlash of their negative actions will, in time, comeback to them - just like the throwing of a boomerang! As a result, they may end up facing enormous fines, long term imprisonment - or even death as a result of their cunning wiles.
Some will think (or even make out to others) that these risks are worth it - but what they don't say is that they live in the constant fear of seeing that 'boomerang' appear on the horizon, inevitably heading in their direction. They don't mention the guilt they fall asleep to and wake up with each day reminding them of what's ultimately coming.
So, they may have gained more money, assets or efforts etc. from others (and I'm sure they'll do their best to enjoy it while they can) but they know their time will soon be up and, until then, they will never truly find peace within themselves.
Is it really, really worth it in the end to gain so much - but to also lose so much at the same time? When all is said and done, I guess you're the only one who can truly answer that question ...
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
Does this happen you might ask? Are there people who will do all they can to prevent others from being successful? Looking at it from a scientific point of view - positive and negative energy exists in all things. When this is applied to personal development, it can mean that there are those who will choose to behave in a largely negative or positive manner in their dealings with others. There will be those people who will support success - and those who will inevitably try to prevent it. So, which of those will you choose to be?
Those who try to stop others being successful are really only showing their own fears, insecurities and self-doubts (possibly as to the status they presently hold) or the potential status others seem destined to achieve.
This almost entirely contradicts the basis of 'success building' (the setting and successful achievement of valuable goals) and can even suggest that many people who behave like this, may not have actually gone through this process in order to have acquired what they have.
What they fail to see is that there's enough success for everybody! The success that's being worked towards by others does not (and cannot) distract or minimise their own. Success is a constant. It only ends when you want it to. Nothing and nobody should be able to hold you back - as long as your goal is true.
So, there's no need to try to stop others from being successful. The time and energy spent trying to stop others from being successful, is the same energy and time that can be spent further developing your own. Their efforts can even reinspire and re-motivate your own creative 'success juices' to climb to the next plateau. We can all win.
Everybody deserves a chance to get their share of success. Deliberately, stopping them from doing this is unnecessary and will, eventually, surely bring about the inevitable 'boomerang backlash'. to those who choose to do this.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
Those who try to stop others being successful are really only showing their own fears, insecurities and self-doubts (possibly as to the status they presently hold) or the potential status others seem destined to achieve.
This almost entirely contradicts the basis of 'success building' (the setting and successful achievement of valuable goals) and can even suggest that many people who behave like this, may not have actually gone through this process in order to have acquired what they have.
What they fail to see is that there's enough success for everybody! The success that's being worked towards by others does not (and cannot) distract or minimise their own. Success is a constant. It only ends when you want it to. Nothing and nobody should be able to hold you back - as long as your goal is true.
So, there's no need to try to stop others from being successful. The time and energy spent trying to stop others from being successful, is the same energy and time that can be spent further developing your own. Their efforts can even reinspire and re-motivate your own creative 'success juices' to climb to the next plateau. We can all win.
Everybody deserves a chance to get their share of success. Deliberately, stopping them from doing this is unnecessary and will, eventually, surely bring about the inevitable 'boomerang backlash'. to those who choose to do this.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
The state of your mind undoubtedly affects all other parts of your existence. If it's in a positive and healthy condition, then this'll be clearly apparent in all that you do as you move from one success to the next. Additionally (whether we accept it or not) we'll also be judged by our physical appearance. Your image and levels of personal cleanliness will tend to portray how you're thinking and feeling to all others too. In short, you'll look great!
Yet, if your mind is negative and unhealthy, then this too will become obvious as your life tends to move from one ongoing complication to the next - and the way you look will begin to show this too.
A clear mind is therefore key to clean living. Continually using Oppositive or 'flip' thinking will help you to stop any negative thoughts as soon they start. Setting valuable goals to aim for - and patiently working to successfully achieve them - is also a key factor.
These two aspects will help you ensure that your mind's always functioning at its best level and your physical appearance will surely follow suit.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
Yet, if your mind is negative and unhealthy, then this too will become obvious as your life tends to move from one ongoing complication to the next - and the way you look will begin to show this too.
A clear mind is therefore key to clean living. Continually using Oppositive or 'flip' thinking will help you to stop any negative thoughts as soon they start. Setting valuable goals to aim for - and patiently working to successfully achieve them - is also a key factor.
These two aspects will help you ensure that your mind's always functioning at its best level and your physical appearance will surely follow suit.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
With so many opinions and information in circulation about the best path to take for success, it increasingly becomes easier to end up muddled and overloaded as to which one is right. Unless there's an ultimate and sure fire basis for judging what advice you come across - the sheer volume of options may only result in puzzling you.
Instead of possibly going through this potential outcome, adopting ONE solid, firm and reliable source to follow will ensure that your efforts are always filtered through something you can fully depend upon. This saves you from the strain of 'trying this and trying that' hoping that something will work out!
But, where will I find this ONE solid, firm and reliable unique source you must be saying? Well, it surely exists - and it can be identified by its ability to produce consistently positive results in all circumstances, no matter what. The objective now is for you to find it and bring it into your life ...
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
Instead of possibly going through this potential outcome, adopting ONE solid, firm and reliable source to follow will ensure that your efforts are always filtered through something you can fully depend upon. This saves you from the strain of 'trying this and trying that' hoping that something will work out!
But, where will I find this ONE solid, firm and reliable unique source you must be saying? Well, it surely exists - and it can be identified by its ability to produce consistently positive results in all circumstances, no matter what. The objective now is for you to find it and bring it into your life ...
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
The road to success is paved with well intended goals, milestones and objectives. When we start out on our journey, the radiance from the 'light of change' can sometimes temporarily blind us to the hazards we'll probably encounter. As a result, we needlessly expose ourselves to the open and hidden dangers that lie ahead.
All journeys, treks, expeditions etc. require some form of taking precautions before embarking. These help to make sure that you're kept safe as you venture into the unknown. The journey towards success is absolutely no different. You'll also need to keep yourself secure from the great challenges you'ill most definitely come up against
Although you'll never know exactly what you'll need to protect yourself against, you should be aware that much of it will come from your own negative thoughts and the negative suggestions from others. These can be overcome by using the Oppositive thinking success method. Impatience is also another significant factor that can make you take unwise decisions at critical times.
Of course, there are other steps you can take to protect yourself on your journey and you'll discover them as you do your success planning. All of these precautions taken before you start will help you to achieve your goal after.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
All journeys, treks, expeditions etc. require some form of taking precautions before embarking. These help to make sure that you're kept safe as you venture into the unknown. The journey towards success is absolutely no different. You'll also need to keep yourself secure from the great challenges you'ill most definitely come up against
Although you'll never know exactly what you'll need to protect yourself against, you should be aware that much of it will come from your own negative thoughts and the negative suggestions from others. These can be overcome by using the Oppositive thinking success method. Impatience is also another significant factor that can make you take unwise decisions at critical times.
Of course, there are other steps you can take to protect yourself on your journey and you'll discover them as you do your success planning. All of these precautions taken before you start will help you to achieve your goal after.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
As I've said in earlier entries, there are masses of options and information available for you to choose from - all claiming to be able to give you the ultimate path to success. Obviously, those who create these programmes believe they'll work - unless they're those con men and women we've already mentioned, who are just looking to make a fast buck!
In a situation like this, it pays great dividends to investigate the claims of success being made and what you're being offered. Through doing this well in advance of potentially committing yourself, you'll be able to probe into the what, when, why, where, who and how of the opportunity. If you're given answers that are convincing and persuasive then at least you've done your best to reduce the potential for future regret. You can then make a much more informed decision as a result. One that you'll know is based upon reason - not emotion.
By taking this type of precaution you'll be able to save yourself from disappointment (or possibly worse) being cheated out of your valuable finances. It also further helps you protect yourself from your own 'success desperation', impatience and/or inexperience (especially if you're new to the success centred lifestyle) as you work towards the fulfilment of your vision.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
In a situation like this, it pays great dividends to investigate the claims of success being made and what you're being offered. Through doing this well in advance of potentially committing yourself, you'll be able to probe into the what, when, why, where, who and how of the opportunity. If you're given answers that are convincing and persuasive then at least you've done your best to reduce the potential for future regret. You can then make a much more informed decision as a result. One that you'll know is based upon reason - not emotion.
By taking this type of precaution you'll be able to save yourself from disappointment (or possibly worse) being cheated out of your valuable finances. It also further helps you protect yourself from your own 'success desperation', impatience and/or inexperience (especially if you're new to the success centred lifestyle) as you work towards the fulfilment of your vision.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
Integrity is a word that's used widely but I wonder how many of you really know what it means and entails - especially in relation to seeking success? One definition is, 'the state of being whole and undivided'.
Now, this is a great definition as it suggests that you must have an inner 'anchor' that gives you the capacity to not go against your set personal standards and principles - irrespective of what is at stake. As a result, you avoid the guilt, regret and shame that often accompanies doing something you know you shouldn't have done - as you become your own judge, jury and executioner all in one!
Total integrity is certainly an exemplary level of excellence to strive towards, as the long term effects of thinking and feeling negatively about your past actions, will without doubt hinder your progress towards peace, success and happiness. You simply can't afford to let these negatives override the positive tasks that need to be set and successfully achieved.
There's no way of knowing what situations you'll encounter in the future that will put your integrity to the test. But, if you know in advance how you'll respond (because you've already set your limits) then the chances of being conflicted when the situation occurs won't catch you off guard.
It makes absolute sense to live with integrity as the possible outcomes of bypassing this, are too far reaching to contemplate and will only leave you asking, 'was it really worth it?'
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
Now, this is a great definition as it suggests that you must have an inner 'anchor' that gives you the capacity to not go against your set personal standards and principles - irrespective of what is at stake. As a result, you avoid the guilt, regret and shame that often accompanies doing something you know you shouldn't have done - as you become your own judge, jury and executioner all in one!
Total integrity is certainly an exemplary level of excellence to strive towards, as the long term effects of thinking and feeling negatively about your past actions, will without doubt hinder your progress towards peace, success and happiness. You simply can't afford to let these negatives override the positive tasks that need to be set and successfully achieved.
There's no way of knowing what situations you'll encounter in the future that will put your integrity to the test. But, if you know in advance how you'll respond (because you've already set your limits) then the chances of being conflicted when the situation occurs won't catch you off guard.
It makes absolute sense to live with integrity as the possible outcomes of bypassing this, are too far reaching to contemplate and will only leave you asking, 'was it really worth it?'
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
Letting your negative thoughts and feelings get the better of you is an absolute recipe for tragedy. You now know that your thoughts directly influence your feelings and actions. If you only allow yourself to actively focus on positive thoughts, you'll generate positive feelings and actions - and the success that only being positive can produce. If you only allow yourself to actively focus on negative thoughts, you'll generate negative feelings and actions - and the failure that only being negative can produce. It's perfectly balanced.
By making sure that you never actively focus on negative thoughts (and you use oppositive thinking to instantly 'flip' it) you'll be able to continually live the positive life you were always destined to have.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
By making sure that you never actively focus on negative thoughts (and you use oppositive thinking to instantly 'flip' it) you'll be able to continually live the positive life you were always destined to have.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
What is belief and how does it help to determine success or failure? One definition of belief is - "an acceptance that something exists or is true, especially one without proof." It essentially means you accept that something can or will happen, even though you can't prove it. The energy generated by these thoughts can therefore push you up - or pull you down - depending on what you decide to choose. The beliefs you choose from the outset will significantly help to determine the outcome. Positive beliefs will help you conform towards success based actions. Negative beliefs will help you deviate towards failure based actions.
In your journey towards peace, success and happiness, you have no real way of knowing for a fact what the exact outcomes will be of your efforts. But one thing you do know for a fact, is that there'll be 'good and bad times' as you press ahead. Depending on which of these two (the good times or the bad times) you focus on - you'll probably end up believing.
If you believe you'll be successful in the end, then you'll generate this indefinable inner energy to make this happen from the start. However, if you believe you'll fail in the end, then you'll conversely generate the same energy to also make this happen. You have total control over what you believe can come of your actions - and your life.
So, making sure that your belief is one of positivity and success (and not failure) from the very start is essential in helping to influence what you'll get in the end. In this respect - belief really is everything!
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
In your journey towards peace, success and happiness, you have no real way of knowing for a fact what the exact outcomes will be of your efforts. But one thing you do know for a fact, is that there'll be 'good and bad times' as you press ahead. Depending on which of these two (the good times or the bad times) you focus on - you'll probably end up believing.
If you believe you'll be successful in the end, then you'll generate this indefinable inner energy to make this happen from the start. However, if you believe you'll fail in the end, then you'll conversely generate the same energy to also make this happen. You have total control over what you believe can come of your actions - and your life.
So, making sure that your belief is one of positivity and success (and not failure) from the very start is essential in helping to influence what you'll get in the end. In this respect - belief really is everything!
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
The Ancient Egyptians believed that on their judgement day they'd have to declare, 'I have not known men who were of no account' as one of the 'negative confessions' to enter heaven. They believed that the people they regularly associated with (their friends) played some significance on their journey to reach the ultimate sanctuary of peace, success and happiness.
The attitudes held by your friends will certainly influence and/or affect your own thoughts and actions. The basic elements of, negative input = negative output: positive input = positive output will shape what you eventually see happen.
If your regular friends are the type of people who generally think and act in a negative manner, there can be little doubt that this input will, over time, begin to affect you - especially if you're just starting out on your journey to success. Their doubts, fears and apprehensions may soon begin to erode any positive thoughts you have and leave you drained and lifeless. It's bound to happen. You simply cannot afford to leave any room for this negative input to shape your situation.
On the other hand, if your regular friends are the type of people who generally think and act in a positive manner, then, equally, there can be little doubt that this input will, over time, begin to affect you. Their continued encouragement, enthusiasm and energy will begin to stimulate you and make you feel like you can achieve all that you aim for.
This is quite a stark contrast to face, but it's a fact that you'll ignore at your peril. Your friends can quite literally pull you up or push you down - and if this has been known since the days of those who built the mighty pyramids we still see standing today - it must account for something.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
The attitudes held by your friends will certainly influence and/or affect your own thoughts and actions. The basic elements of, negative input = negative output: positive input = positive output will shape what you eventually see happen.
If your regular friends are the type of people who generally think and act in a negative manner, there can be little doubt that this input will, over time, begin to affect you - especially if you're just starting out on your journey to success. Their doubts, fears and apprehensions may soon begin to erode any positive thoughts you have and leave you drained and lifeless. It's bound to happen. You simply cannot afford to leave any room for this negative input to shape your situation.
On the other hand, if your regular friends are the type of people who generally think and act in a positive manner, then, equally, there can be little doubt that this input will, over time, begin to affect you. Their continued encouragement, enthusiasm and energy will begin to stimulate you and make you feel like you can achieve all that you aim for.
This is quite a stark contrast to face, but it's a fact that you'll ignore at your peril. Your friends can quite literally pull you up or push you down - and if this has been known since the days of those who built the mighty pyramids we still see standing today - it must account for something.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
If you're expected to carry out a certain task, then you really should do it. By not completing your obligations to and for others - you equally don't complete them for yourself. By doing this you tell yourself (and the others you let down) that you're unreliable, untrustworthy and undependable. You'll find it unnecessarily difficult trying to reach success with these adverse attributes holding you back and filling you with guilt and remorse.
These negative effects are entirely linked to the negative thoughts you've started the task with. If you don't really want to do it - you won't do it (or you won't do it upto the required standard). Alternatively, If you do really want to do it - you'll do it (upto - and beyond - the extent it should be done). Simply put, the negative thoughts will produce negative outcomes: The positive thoughts will produce positive outcomes. Doing what you know you should do is all within your control.
Ensuring that you fulfil all of your obligations, especially if there's nothing preventing you from doing so, helps you in ways you may not realise. The road to success is rarely a secluded one. You'll see that others may be needed to help you on your way and what they know about you (positive or negative) will influence what they choose to do. Your reputation with others can be made or broken depending on your initial thoughts alone!
Achieving the responsibilities you've agreed to carry out will automatically raise your confidence and self esteem throughout the process. You'll be reinforcing and proving to yourself that you're reliable, trustworthy and dependable - powerful qualities that are essential for your trek towards reaching your desired goal.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
These negative effects are entirely linked to the negative thoughts you've started the task with. If you don't really want to do it - you won't do it (or you won't do it upto the required standard). Alternatively, If you do really want to do it - you'll do it (upto - and beyond - the extent it should be done). Simply put, the negative thoughts will produce negative outcomes: The positive thoughts will produce positive outcomes. Doing what you know you should do is all within your control.
Ensuring that you fulfil all of your obligations, especially if there's nothing preventing you from doing so, helps you in ways you may not realise. The road to success is rarely a secluded one. You'll see that others may be needed to help you on your way and what they know about you (positive or negative) will influence what they choose to do. Your reputation with others can be made or broken depending on your initial thoughts alone!
Achieving the responsibilities you've agreed to carry out will automatically raise your confidence and self esteem throughout the process. You'll be reinforcing and proving to yourself that you're reliable, trustworthy and dependable - powerful qualities that are essential for your trek towards reaching your desired goal.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
Writing this blog at the time of witnessing some of the most intense protests in recent years, surrounding the death of George Floyd (an African American who was killed by a white policeman on 25th May 2020 in Minneapolis, USA) makes this particular entry all the more applicable.
In these confrontations, there have been spontaneous conflicts against counter demonstrators; public and private property; the authorities etc. as community and political groups sought to highlight the need for justice for similar victims of police brutality and systemic racial oppression.
Although the war against all forms of oppression is a valiant one, there has to be a line which must not be crossed because, once it is, the 'hero' can soon find him or herself teetering on the slippery road to villainy. This would then force us all to ask the question, when does the road to justice become an avenue for vengeance?
Justice and vengeance are separated by the thinnest of lines that you can easily cross over if you're unaware that this line even exists. By letting your natural feelings of dislike, hatred or resentment make you choose to behave exactly like those who act unjustly, will only leave you with the negative thoughts and feelings of your actions. This isn't to say that you mustn't resist injustice. If you don't do this, then you too become responsible for the negativity that follows. You just shouldn't go beyond what you know to be right
Your own conscience will have to be the ultimate scale for how you ensure you don't take a step too far. Your consistent efforts to think and live positively (and not negatively) will act as the 'weights' for keeping this lasting balance.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
In these confrontations, there have been spontaneous conflicts against counter demonstrators; public and private property; the authorities etc. as community and political groups sought to highlight the need for justice for similar victims of police brutality and systemic racial oppression.
Although the war against all forms of oppression is a valiant one, there has to be a line which must not be crossed because, once it is, the 'hero' can soon find him or herself teetering on the slippery road to villainy. This would then force us all to ask the question, when does the road to justice become an avenue for vengeance?
Justice and vengeance are separated by the thinnest of lines that you can easily cross over if you're unaware that this line even exists. By letting your natural feelings of dislike, hatred or resentment make you choose to behave exactly like those who act unjustly, will only leave you with the negative thoughts and feelings of your actions. This isn't to say that you mustn't resist injustice. If you don't do this, then you too become responsible for the negativity that follows. You just shouldn't go beyond what you know to be right
Your own conscience will have to be the ultimate scale for how you ensure you don't take a step too far. Your consistent efforts to think and live positively (and not negatively) will act as the 'weights' for keeping this lasting balance.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
Is there any benefit in you helping others to live a positive lifestyle? What about hindering them from living a negative lifestyle? Doing your part to help make the changes you want to see around you, is a truly worthy and valuable use of your insights, skills and abilities.
The task of helping to 'build a better world' becomes much easier when you have others giving support. Imagine trying to undertake this magnificent task all alone? Where would you start? How would you start? The help from others would become essential in this 'impossible mission'.
The more people you encourage to live positively means the more people available to support your efforts. The more people you discourage from living negatively helps to make your efforts much easier. You'll also be making yourself think and feel amazing as you share positive energy with others - taking you to that natural high!
It makes perfect sense. All you have to do is your bit - and the people around you will have the potential to ultimately do theirs.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
The task of helping to 'build a better world' becomes much easier when you have others giving support. Imagine trying to undertake this magnificent task all alone? Where would you start? How would you start? The help from others would become essential in this 'impossible mission'.
The more people you encourage to live positively means the more people available to support your efforts. The more people you discourage from living negatively helps to make your efforts much easier. You'll also be making yourself think and feel amazing as you share positive energy with others - taking you to that natural high!
It makes perfect sense. All you have to do is your bit - and the people around you will have the potential to ultimately do theirs.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
Keeping yourself pure in thought and action is vital in your journey towards achieving peace, success and happiness. By now, you already know that keeping your thoughts absolutely pure (positive) is the way to achieve positive actions - and a positive life.
More often than not, many quickly assume that keeping pure just means staying physically clean (by washing yourself etc.) but, even then, this would only happen from the initial positive thought to do so. After all, you'd only want to wash yourself if you see the value in washing yourself!
So, your ultimate successes are fueled by the degree of purity (positivity) your initial thoughts contain. Keeping your thoughts pure - absolutely pure - is the best way to reach the top.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
More often than not, many quickly assume that keeping pure just means staying physically clean (by washing yourself etc.) but, even then, this would only happen from the initial positive thought to do so. After all, you'd only want to wash yourself if you see the value in washing yourself!
So, your ultimate successes are fueled by the degree of purity (positivity) your initial thoughts contain. Keeping your thoughts pure - absolutely pure - is the best way to reach the top.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
Being fair and objective to others, even when you think and feel quite the opposite, is another example of personal excellence and positivity. To have that degree of inner control under what could be very demanding circumstances, is a clear indication you've been able to master the continually clashing facets of your positive and negative 'selfs'.
This level of impartiality shows you understand your responsibility to yourself (to remain positive no matter what situation you find yourself in) and you recognise your obligations to those around you, to help try and bring about a positive outcome.
Staying committed to being equitable helps you to know you're always doing the right thing - for yourself, for others and for positive living. Everybody wins!
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
This level of impartiality shows you understand your responsibility to yourself (to remain positive no matter what situation you find yourself in) and you recognise your obligations to those around you, to help try and bring about a positive outcome.
Staying committed to being equitable helps you to know you're always doing the right thing - for yourself, for others and for positive living. Everybody wins!
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
Your duty lies with those whom it's owed - and also to yourself. If, perhaps, you benefit from a sincere act of good will, you have some obligation to recognise the source of it. This would mean you have some degree of responsibility to your benefactor to acknowledge their support - and potentially give your support to also. It's an unspoken and unofficial 'allegiance' that's to be honoured.
This level of commitment is further owed to yourself, as you need to know you've responded positively to the option(s). By responding negatively, you do yourself no favours in your long term quest towards success and you'd only produce the negative thoughts and feelings you're bound to get, by 'letting yourself down' and acting against your heightening positive character.
Looking at it this way just goes to show the significance of duty and who it's owed to. It's a major aspect of life which you must give its full due, because of its far reaching impact - both publicly and personally.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
This level of commitment is further owed to yourself, as you need to know you've responded positively to the option(s). By responding negatively, you do yourself no favours in your long term quest towards success and you'd only produce the negative thoughts and feelings you're bound to get, by 'letting yourself down' and acting against your heightening positive character.
Looking at it this way just goes to show the significance of duty and who it's owed to. It's a major aspect of life which you must give its full due, because of its far reaching impact - both publicly and personally.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
The value of striving for success should never be undervalued. It's at this point where you'll begin to discover your hidden strengths, capabilities and talents as you work towards overcoming the challenges you encounter. You'll begin to truly recognise just how much you can give and take, as you continue on the road to achieving your goals.
The resilience you show towards defeating the problems that threaten to hold you back, acts as an indicator to where you are on your 'success timeline'. If you find that you give up easily (or you don't even start) then you've still got quite a long way to go with building up your inner strength and discipline. Building greater self-control and will power should then be your paramount objective, as these will influence all else that you do afterwards.
Alternatively, if you find that you're patient; you keep on pushing forward no matter what and you never give up until you achieve what you've set out to do - then that's a magnificent stage you've already reached. It can only get better from there on!
Exploring how you can build upon your ability to cope at times like this, further helps you to develop your growing success skills. By knowing the who, what, where, when, why and how you can raise your capability to progress, can only result in even more positive outcomes. You'll have a much better idea of what you need to do to get the results you seek
Sometimes, you may begrudge the difficulties you're going through to reach your goal and feel upset with what appears to be a lack of progress but, remember, every diamond started out as a lump of coal! It's the pressure - and your ability to withstand it - that'll help you to eventually sparkle and then shine brightly.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
The resilience you show towards defeating the problems that threaten to hold you back, acts as an indicator to where you are on your 'success timeline'. If you find that you give up easily (or you don't even start) then you've still got quite a long way to go with building up your inner strength and discipline. Building greater self-control and will power should then be your paramount objective, as these will influence all else that you do afterwards.
Alternatively, if you find that you're patient; you keep on pushing forward no matter what and you never give up until you achieve what you've set out to do - then that's a magnificent stage you've already reached. It can only get better from there on!
Exploring how you can build upon your ability to cope at times like this, further helps you to develop your growing success skills. By knowing the who, what, where, when, why and how you can raise your capability to progress, can only result in even more positive outcomes. You'll have a much better idea of what you need to do to get the results you seek
Sometimes, you may begrudge the difficulties you're going through to reach your goal and feel upset with what appears to be a lack of progress but, remember, every diamond started out as a lump of coal! It's the pressure - and your ability to withstand it - that'll help you to eventually sparkle and then shine brightly.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
Those who you choose to take as your friends will surely indicate what you're really all about. If you claim you're dedicated to the pursuit of peace, success and happiness - yet the people you choose to regularly associate with are not - then the reality must be that you're not what you say you are! Others you meet may also be able to recognise this and begin to probably question this apparent contradiction.
Let's face it, you can only really have that true and meaningful connection from those who you share most in common with. Your shared similarities will help to form the bedrock of all you do in the future. Putting it simply, positive people will have a greater closeness with other positive people - and negative people will have a greater closeness with other negative people. It's only natural.
You are how you choose to act - and you'll be judged and perceived equally so. Why would you choose to spend your time and energy with people who are quite literally the opposite of you - unless that's what you really are? How would these friendships and relationships truly benefit you on your journey on the road to 'Success Street'? What are you really saying to yourself about yourself? These are demanding questions you may have to explore as you edge closer towards your goal.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
Let's face it, you can only really have that true and meaningful connection from those who you share most in common with. Your shared similarities will help to form the bedrock of all you do in the future. Putting it simply, positive people will have a greater closeness with other positive people - and negative people will have a greater closeness with other negative people. It's only natural.
You are how you choose to act - and you'll be judged and perceived equally so. Why would you choose to spend your time and energy with people who are quite literally the opposite of you - unless that's what you really are? How would these friendships and relationships truly benefit you on your journey on the road to 'Success Street'? What are you really saying to yourself about yourself? These are demanding questions you may have to explore as you edge closer towards your goal.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
The road to 'Success Street' is littered with many who have tried and given up, or wanted to try, but never even started! The challenges met moving towards this destination can be so taxing that some lose hope and just simply give up. What could've been their ultimate success was left waiting for them - or was it?
What happens to this opportunity when you give up trying to get it? Does it just sit in limbo awaiting your return? Chance can be a very fleeting thing. It can be there one minute and gone the next. If you're not ready for it when it arrives (or you don't take it when it's there) you may end up losing out on something that could completely change your life - and may never return.
You can bet you're not the only one seeking success and opportunity. There's many others looking for that one, big chance to take that life changing step. If they see the same opportunity you've decided to turn your back on; grab it; develop it and finally succeed with it, then you've missed out. Of course there'll be other opportunities in the future, but perhaps none like the one you've lost out on - just because you gave up.
History has shown that this point of 'perception intersection' (where you've disregarded an opportunity - but then someone else goes on to have fabulous success with it) has been the end of many a success seeker. It's a truly consciousness raising experience.
There'll always be someone else eager enough and hungry enough to take the opportunities (and successes) that are potentially yours. So, with those odds, how much time do you think you have to get your share?
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
What happens to this opportunity when you give up trying to get it? Does it just sit in limbo awaiting your return? Chance can be a very fleeting thing. It can be there one minute and gone the next. If you're not ready for it when it arrives (or you don't take it when it's there) you may end up losing out on something that could completely change your life - and may never return.
You can bet you're not the only one seeking success and opportunity. There's many others looking for that one, big chance to take that life changing step. If they see the same opportunity you've decided to turn your back on; grab it; develop it and finally succeed with it, then you've missed out. Of course there'll be other opportunities in the future, but perhaps none like the one you've lost out on - just because you gave up.
History has shown that this point of 'perception intersection' (where you've disregarded an opportunity - but then someone else goes on to have fabulous success with it) has been the end of many a success seeker. It's a truly consciousness raising experience.
There'll always be someone else eager enough and hungry enough to take the opportunities (and successes) that are potentially yours. So, with those odds, how much time do you think you have to get your share?
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
Some of the people you have in your life may be great fun - but they may also be laughing at you behind your back as you strive towards success. Not everybody sees the journey to success as being important - or even relevant. They're quite happy to stay at the level they're at and will probably stay there for the rest of their lives. Whether they're scared to even try or they're genuinely content with their lot, the outcome will be the same.
If you discover that they're doing this, then you need to consider if they're your friends at all. Can you really be friends with someone who views your serious and dedicated efforts as ludicrous, absurd and laughable? They'll be making a mockery out of you, making you look like a fool in front of other people. These same people could be your future customers or business partners - but they'll now view you cautiously due to what your 'friends' have said.
Something or someone will have to go! Your efforts towards success - or your big fun 'friends'. You'll only ever get positive energy from positive people. If your friends can't give you this (and they only give you the opposite instead) then it's make your mind up time. Your success can't - and won't wait. There#ll always be time for fun when you're at the top!
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
If you discover that they're doing this, then you need to consider if they're your friends at all. Can you really be friends with someone who views your serious and dedicated efforts as ludicrous, absurd and laughable? They'll be making a mockery out of you, making you look like a fool in front of other people. These same people could be your future customers or business partners - but they'll now view you cautiously due to what your 'friends' have said.
Something or someone will have to go! Your efforts towards success - or your big fun 'friends'. You'll only ever get positive energy from positive people. If your friends can't give you this (and they only give you the opposite instead) then it's make your mind up time. Your success can't - and won't wait. There#ll always be time for fun when you're at the top!
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
If you get a golden opportunity to achieve your goal much quicker than you would've done without it, then you should take as much benefit from this opportunity as you can, while you can. As you already know, opportunities are everywhere and they come and go as they please. If one comes to you, you shouldn't think you're lacking integrity; cheating or 'jumping the success queue' and refuse to take it because it feels like you haven't earned it. But, what criteria are you using to identify if you've earned (or not earned) the advantages that come your way? There isn't one! It's probably you just being too hard on yourself thinking that it's a required virtue. It's not. Just accept that the opportunity has come to you and it's a special chance to rapidly push forward.
To react to this chance by saying you'd rather 'tough it out and go the hard way' is unwarranted and will make your journey unnecessarily harder. Besides, If you're truly practicing the positive lifestyle, you'd be able to see that the opportunity is also positive in itself. To then respond negatively to a positive window of opportunity is counter-positivity and can only result in more negativity. So, by not taking the chance, you're ruining your present and future options for reaching your goals.
Making things harder for yourself on the road to success only hurts you. You don't need to be the 'tough guy' to prove anything, because this journey is going to be tough enough. Any positive opportunity you're able to benefit from is a great advantage on the road to success. Don't stand in your own way and take as many of them as you can while they're there. You just don't know when (or if) the next one will arrive!
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
To react to this chance by saying you'd rather 'tough it out and go the hard way' is unwarranted and will make your journey unnecessarily harder. Besides, If you're truly practicing the positive lifestyle, you'd be able to see that the opportunity is also positive in itself. To then respond negatively to a positive window of opportunity is counter-positivity and can only result in more negativity. So, by not taking the chance, you're ruining your present and future options for reaching your goals.
Making things harder for yourself on the road to success only hurts you. You don't need to be the 'tough guy' to prove anything, because this journey is going to be tough enough. Any positive opportunity you're able to benefit from is a great advantage on the road to success. Don't stand in your own way and take as many of them as you can while they're there. You just don't know when (or if) the next one will arrive!
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
A step too far could cause you more problems then it's worth. The exhilaration and triumph you'll begin to feel as you see each of your goals being achieved one by one, could convince you that you're now 'invincible' and, as a result, you may lose some of your discipline and perspective. Holding this negative belief could be the one thing that tips you over the edge into a devastating calamity. Just like the gambler who's on a winning streak, unexpectedly ends up losing it all, just because s/he refused to keep them self in check!
It's at this stage of success seeking that you should have all the more self restraint and control, because this'll keep you from making the small mistakes that can end up having big consequences.
Knowing your limits and staying within them (especially at those times described above) is a mark of greatness - not weakness. Leave that recklessness and risk taking to the casino card sharks and gamblers.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
It's at this stage of success seeking that you should have all the more self restraint and control, because this'll keep you from making the small mistakes that can end up having big consequences.
Knowing your limits and staying within them (especially at those times described above) is a mark of greatness - not weakness. Leave that recklessness and risk taking to the casino card sharks and gamblers.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
The popular image of the super successful James Bond type character who drinks dry martini, plays baccarat and smokes Morland cigarettes is often used to depict someone who's at the top of their game. These actions are seen as being the signs of wealth, achievement and affluence for all of those who have 'made it'. Yet, can these practices have a negative impact on you as you try to reach your goals - and also stay at the top?
Although I'm sure there are many more stories of those who've lost their way (and lost it all) through their inability to control their personal vices, the popularist image depicted above still somehow manages to lead the way. It shouldn't take you long to find plenty of tales of woe, sadness and regret from those who wish they could turn back time and not become tragic victims to the creeping vices they dangerously dabbled with.
The negative effects of these actions generally outweigh the positive ones. You may feel powerful and dominant; totally relaxed or on top of the world at the time - but does it last? What are the long term effects of engaging in them? What are you REALLY trying to hide - or show? The money you'll use regularly accessing each of these vices could, equally, be spent on financing your success journey instead. All of the resources you'll require to help you succeed will have to be postponed while you 'get over the hang over' and rebuild your finances again. What a choice!
As stated in an earlier blog, keeping a clean mind and body is essential for success. The negative effects of these practices can destroy both your mind and body as they take more and more control of you - and you lose focus on your stated goals. Success will most probably be 'off the cards' once this happens. Rising to the top may take a long time - but falling to the bottom can take no time at all.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
Although I'm sure there are many more stories of those who've lost their way (and lost it all) through their inability to control their personal vices, the popularist image depicted above still somehow manages to lead the way. It shouldn't take you long to find plenty of tales of woe, sadness and regret from those who wish they could turn back time and not become tragic victims to the creeping vices they dangerously dabbled with.
The negative effects of these actions generally outweigh the positive ones. You may feel powerful and dominant; totally relaxed or on top of the world at the time - but does it last? What are the long term effects of engaging in them? What are you REALLY trying to hide - or show? The money you'll use regularly accessing each of these vices could, equally, be spent on financing your success journey instead. All of the resources you'll require to help you succeed will have to be postponed while you 'get over the hang over' and rebuild your finances again. What a choice!
As stated in an earlier blog, keeping a clean mind and body is essential for success. The negative effects of these practices can destroy both your mind and body as they take more and more control of you - and you lose focus on your stated goals. Success will most probably be 'off the cards' once this happens. Rising to the top may take a long time - but falling to the bottom can take no time at all.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
Knowing in advance what'll potentially happen to you if you choose to act negatively, can directly inspire you to act positively. The uneasiness of thinking about the difficulty you're likely to get into can be so distressing, that you realise it's just not worth it and so you avoid it altogether instead. Is it an awe or fear that helps to keep you thinking and acting positively? Are they really just two sides of the same coin?
Sounds simple, but when it's based upon something that you truly desire and/or just love to do, this is when things become much harder. Your commitment to the positive lifestyle will surely be tested, as you try to reconcile your 'wants' (the satisfaction you'll get right now) with your 'needs' (how it'll affect your efforts towards success seeking in the future).
This tricky balancing act will result in whichever of the two you make the most effort towards. Sometimes it'll be to your benefit (as you make the right choices that'll keep you out of a mess) other times it'll prove to be the opposite (as you put yourself right into a mess!). Hopefully, your choices will be more of the former category than the latter, as your journey towards success will be significantly affected either way .
Your amount of positive thinking and self control is the critical issue here. So, once these negative thoughts start to enter your mind - flip them - and instantly start to focus on doing the positive things which'll keep you on track, and within your own personal boundaries and limits.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
Sounds simple, but when it's based upon something that you truly desire and/or just love to do, this is when things become much harder. Your commitment to the positive lifestyle will surely be tested, as you try to reconcile your 'wants' (the satisfaction you'll get right now) with your 'needs' (how it'll affect your efforts towards success seeking in the future).
This tricky balancing act will result in whichever of the two you make the most effort towards. Sometimes it'll be to your benefit (as you make the right choices that'll keep you out of a mess) other times it'll prove to be the opposite (as you put yourself right into a mess!). Hopefully, your choices will be more of the former category than the latter, as your journey towards success will be significantly affected either way .
Your amount of positive thinking and self control is the critical issue here. So, once these negative thoughts start to enter your mind - flip them - and instantly start to focus on doing the positive things which'll keep you on track, and within your own personal boundaries and limits.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
Is there a price to be paid for your deliberate negative behaviour? If there isn't, then how do you ensure you don't do them all the time - and then suffer the inescapable 'boomerangic' consequences?
There has to be repercussions for your intentional negative actions, because these help to ensure you avoid doing them again in the future by acting as a deterrent. It may feel unfair, extreme or unjustified at the time - but really it's for your own good in the future!
If it is indeed true that there's an effect to every cause, then if your cause is negative - you'll only be increasing the probability of getting negative effects as a result. Alternatively, if your cause is positive - you'll only be increasing the probability of getting positive effects as a result. Of course, there's no guarantee of either, because success seeking isn't a precise science. So, it's quite possible you could attempt to do something positive - but get a negative response or reaction back - and vice versa! You can't control how others respond to you. You only have this control over yourself.
Although this possibility is there you shouldn't let it stop you acting positively, because generally you know that's the best way to become successful. Once you've gained that recognition of the benefit of acting better next time, you'll be saving yourself the upset of those nasty consequences (that you just know you're going to hate) - and also be building up your chances of getting those favourable results that you're working so hard towards.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
There has to be repercussions for your intentional negative actions, because these help to ensure you avoid doing them again in the future by acting as a deterrent. It may feel unfair, extreme or unjustified at the time - but really it's for your own good in the future!
If it is indeed true that there's an effect to every cause, then if your cause is negative - you'll only be increasing the probability of getting negative effects as a result. Alternatively, if your cause is positive - you'll only be increasing the probability of getting positive effects as a result. Of course, there's no guarantee of either, because success seeking isn't a precise science. So, it's quite possible you could attempt to do something positive - but get a negative response or reaction back - and vice versa! You can't control how others respond to you. You only have this control over yourself.
Although this possibility is there you shouldn't let it stop you acting positively, because generally you know that's the best way to become successful. Once you've gained that recognition of the benefit of acting better next time, you'll be saving yourself the upset of those nasty consequences (that you just know you're going to hate) - and also be building up your chances of getting those favourable results that you're working so hard towards.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
You're already aware that patience is one of your most valuable assets when seeking success. Developing this quality helps you to endure the varied challenges you'll meet on the road to achieving your goals.
Another particular aspect about patience is to recognise that you won't always be able to get what you want, when you want it. This could be results from what you've done or answers to questions that are puzzling you.
You'd love to reach your goals straight away, but just can't understand why it's not happening fast enough. There appears to be no apparent reason as you scratch your head trying to find the answers. Are you not good enough? Are you goals unclear? Are you just fooling yourself about the whole thing? As you try and move closer to your goals you may still be none the wiser. So, now what?
At times like this, sometimes the most effective answer is to just carry on with your tasks and see if the answers become any clearer as you press ahead. This ensures that you don't just sit around filling your mind with negative thoughts, frustrating yourself waiting for answers that you might not be ready for. Instead, carry on working towards achieving your goals with the belief that the answers you seek will eventually arrive sometime in the future.
You may never get the answers to all of the questions you seek in life. That's an undeniable fact, but you can't let that stop you. The main thing you need to do is stay positive and work with what you have at the time. This includes the resources and knowledge you have available. All you have to do is keep on moving ...
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
Another particular aspect about patience is to recognise that you won't always be able to get what you want, when you want it. This could be results from what you've done or answers to questions that are puzzling you.
You'd love to reach your goals straight away, but just can't understand why it's not happening fast enough. There appears to be no apparent reason as you scratch your head trying to find the answers. Are you not good enough? Are you goals unclear? Are you just fooling yourself about the whole thing? As you try and move closer to your goals you may still be none the wiser. So, now what?
At times like this, sometimes the most effective answer is to just carry on with your tasks and see if the answers become any clearer as you press ahead. This ensures that you don't just sit around filling your mind with negative thoughts, frustrating yourself waiting for answers that you might not be ready for. Instead, carry on working towards achieving your goals with the belief that the answers you seek will eventually arrive sometime in the future.
You may never get the answers to all of the questions you seek in life. That's an undeniable fact, but you can't let that stop you. The main thing you need to do is stay positive and work with what you have at the time. This includes the resources and knowledge you have available. All you have to do is keep on moving ...
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
Being around negative people may cause you to feel deflated, dismayed and down hearted. Their gloomy responses to your enthusiasm is the total contrast of what's needed to bring about great results for everyone. You may even find yourself not liking negative people at all and wanting to say away from them. Why? It's because they're the absolute polar opposite of you!
You know that you can't change the way people choose to think and act. You can only change the way that you choose to think and act. You do have some degree of choice with whom you mix with, but this will become more difficult in particular places, especially at work, but there is something you can do to counteract them.
The basis of oppositive (or 'flip') thinking is to immediately replace a negative thought with its positive opposite as it enters your mind, e.g., 'I can't do that' becomes "I can do that"; "I'll never win" becomes "I can win"; "I'm a failure becomes I'm not a failure" etc. Actively focussing on this positive thought instead helps motivate you to do it. This same principle can be used to guard yourself against the effects of negative people, e.g., "No, let's not try it" becomes "Yes, let's try it" etc. As long as you're sincerely encouraging and pushing towards a genuine positive outcome (and not just being awkward), you'll be ok.
When you find yourself facing a negative person - just be the positive opposite instead. There can be only one winner in a 'standoff' like this and, if this is at your place of work, it's highly likely that staff will want to be viewed as being more positive then negative - especially in front of management. In a situation such as this, you'll always be the winner. Even in a relaxed social setting, your general positivity will usually win in the end against those who are being negative. Really, you can't fail!
The power of positivity can be your defence against all forms of negativity. It may not make you very popular amongst those who choose to think and act negatively but, I'm sure, in time they'll get over it ...
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
You know that you can't change the way people choose to think and act. You can only change the way that you choose to think and act. You do have some degree of choice with whom you mix with, but this will become more difficult in particular places, especially at work, but there is something you can do to counteract them.
The basis of oppositive (or 'flip') thinking is to immediately replace a negative thought with its positive opposite as it enters your mind, e.g., 'I can't do that' becomes "I can do that"; "I'll never win" becomes "I can win"; "I'm a failure becomes I'm not a failure" etc. Actively focussing on this positive thought instead helps motivate you to do it. This same principle can be used to guard yourself against the effects of negative people, e.g., "No, let's not try it" becomes "Yes, let's try it" etc. As long as you're sincerely encouraging and pushing towards a genuine positive outcome (and not just being awkward), you'll be ok.
When you find yourself facing a negative person - just be the positive opposite instead. There can be only one winner in a 'standoff' like this and, if this is at your place of work, it's highly likely that staff will want to be viewed as being more positive then negative - especially in front of management. In a situation such as this, you'll always be the winner. Even in a relaxed social setting, your general positivity will usually win in the end against those who are being negative. Really, you can't fail!
The power of positivity can be your defence against all forms of negativity. It may not make you very popular amongst those who choose to think and act negatively but, I'm sure, in time they'll get over it ...
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
There was once a time when what was said or agreed between two people was enough. There were no need for formal business meetings; high powered solicitors retained or costly legal contracts drawn up. It was all much more simple back then, but is it possible now?
Doing what you say you're going to do is an important part of your journey to success. The negativity you'll experience by not doing this could lead to you think regretfully or remorsefully at deliberately letting others down - and you know what negative thinking can do, don't you?
Keeping your word to others helps keep you thinking and feeling positive and guilt free. If others don't keep their word to you, then that's not anything you can influence - but make sure you always take precautions against the danger of this happening - because that's the positive thing to do!
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
Doing what you say you're going to do is an important part of your journey to success. The negativity you'll experience by not doing this could lead to you think regretfully or remorsefully at deliberately letting others down - and you know what negative thinking can do, don't you?
Keeping your word to others helps keep you thinking and feeling positive and guilt free. If others don't keep their word to you, then that's not anything you can influence - but make sure you always take precautions against the danger of this happening - because that's the positive thing to do!
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
All you will ever learn about yourself can be linked to the tests and challenges you've successfully passed and overcome in the past. It's through these trials that you'll learn about your hidden capabilities, resilience and capacity to continue on to success - no matter what. This is the key to great confidence and self esteem.
It reminds me of the Superman character whom so many know and love. You see him in his red and blue outfit and think that he just appeared like that. But, what you don't see are all of the experiences he went through before he got the 'S' on his chest, as a boy and young man.
These helped him to learn how to use and control his superhuman strength, how to take off, fly and land and how to use his searing heat and x-ray vision. He went though many exciting adventures where he discovered each of them, mostly by accident, but then knew he had those incredible skills available to use in the future. This is exactly the same for you!
Although I'm not going to promise that you'll be faster than a speeding bullet! More powerful than a locomotive and be able to leap tall buildings at a single bound, you will be able to learn what other undiscovered capabilities you have within you - as long as you just don't give up trying to set and successfully achieve your goals.
To give up and not even try (or to not even start) is one of the most destructively negative things you can do, because you'll lose the opportunity to learn what you could've learnt if you had carried on. Yes. If you take a bit of a break or rest and use this time to reassess your situation or get help from other sources, then that's different. You know you're going to start up again as soon as you're ready. The problem will arise when you take that break or rest and just stay like that - not looking to carry on with the journey. You just can't be bothered anymore. This is where you truly let yourself down and miss out on the lessons to be learnt. Have the conviction to carry on, whatever it takes, because this is where the real benefits lie.
You're already a superman or superwoman. You probably just haven't been on enough thrilling adventures to discover it as yet. So, up, up and away you go!
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
It reminds me of the Superman character whom so many know and love. You see him in his red and blue outfit and think that he just appeared like that. But, what you don't see are all of the experiences he went through before he got the 'S' on his chest, as a boy and young man.
These helped him to learn how to use and control his superhuman strength, how to take off, fly and land and how to use his searing heat and x-ray vision. He went though many exciting adventures where he discovered each of them, mostly by accident, but then knew he had those incredible skills available to use in the future. This is exactly the same for you!
Although I'm not going to promise that you'll be faster than a speeding bullet! More powerful than a locomotive and be able to leap tall buildings at a single bound, you will be able to learn what other undiscovered capabilities you have within you - as long as you just don't give up trying to set and successfully achieve your goals.
To give up and not even try (or to not even start) is one of the most destructively negative things you can do, because you'll lose the opportunity to learn what you could've learnt if you had carried on. Yes. If you take a bit of a break or rest and use this time to reassess your situation or get help from other sources, then that's different. You know you're going to start up again as soon as you're ready. The problem will arise when you take that break or rest and just stay like that - not looking to carry on with the journey. You just can't be bothered anymore. This is where you truly let yourself down and miss out on the lessons to be learnt. Have the conviction to carry on, whatever it takes, because this is where the real benefits lie.
You're already a superman or superwoman. You probably just haven't been on enough thrilling adventures to discover it as yet. So, up, up and away you go!
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
You'll probably read and hear about a lot of success concepts as you continue your journey towards your goal. With all of the varied perceptions held by numerous success coaches, it'd be impossible for there not to be. This has its advantages - but also its disadvantages too.
As a new success seeker, you'll be much like a sponge (able to soak up lots of information) but this may then become quite confusing as not all of these approaches can produce equally positive outcomes. So, which one is the right one? How do you avoid the 'get fixed quick' tricksters and con artists? Which one is really the truth?
The most basic core element of success will typically be based upon the simple equation of 'input = output'. This means the amount you put in - can (and will) largely influence the amount you get out. However, as I've said in a previous blog, this isn't a precise science and isn't guaranteed to work every single time as desired - but it's a universal principle that has stood the test of time and has proven to work consistently in the past. There's no real reason to deny or doubt it as a general truth.
Other approaches may state that you can get maximum output from minimal input. Now, this sounds really appealing doesn't it? After all, who doesn't want to have their cake and eat it too? But, this is like saying it's possible to drive a thousand miles on a quarter tank of fuel! How could this even be remotely true? it just doesn't add up, but you'll be surprised at how many people will choose these types of option in order to reach the top quickly - and live to regret it later.
So, once the unfeasible assurances of e.g., you can legally become a multi millionaire in 30 days have been removed, then whatever remains - no matter how uncertain it may seem at the time, e.g., you can develop a new, positive mindset within 30 days - must be the truth!
Avoiding this principle will only increase your chances of being deceived by the fraudsters out there, who will gladly take all of your money, in exchange for empty promises of fulfilling your dreams.
You'll get nothing for nothing. This cannot be denied. Refusing to accept this certainty can only result in its own inevitable outcome of nothing. The truth is out there - if you only choose to accept it
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
As a new success seeker, you'll be much like a sponge (able to soak up lots of information) but this may then become quite confusing as not all of these approaches can produce equally positive outcomes. So, which one is the right one? How do you avoid the 'get fixed quick' tricksters and con artists? Which one is really the truth?
The most basic core element of success will typically be based upon the simple equation of 'input = output'. This means the amount you put in - can (and will) largely influence the amount you get out. However, as I've said in a previous blog, this isn't a precise science and isn't guaranteed to work every single time as desired - but it's a universal principle that has stood the test of time and has proven to work consistently in the past. There's no real reason to deny or doubt it as a general truth.
Other approaches may state that you can get maximum output from minimal input. Now, this sounds really appealing doesn't it? After all, who doesn't want to have their cake and eat it too? But, this is like saying it's possible to drive a thousand miles on a quarter tank of fuel! How could this even be remotely true? it just doesn't add up, but you'll be surprised at how many people will choose these types of option in order to reach the top quickly - and live to regret it later.
So, once the unfeasible assurances of e.g., you can legally become a multi millionaire in 30 days have been removed, then whatever remains - no matter how uncertain it may seem at the time, e.g., you can develop a new, positive mindset within 30 days - must be the truth!
Avoiding this principle will only increase your chances of being deceived by the fraudsters out there, who will gladly take all of your money, in exchange for empty promises of fulfilling your dreams.
You'll get nothing for nothing. This cannot be denied. Refusing to accept this certainty can only result in its own inevitable outcome of nothing. The truth is out there - if you only choose to accept it
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
When your chance comes to benefit from a great opportunity, don't hesitate to take it. Responding in this manner only helps to ease your journey towards success and is a universal truth that you shouldn't deny or decline.
By doing this, substantial advantages can be gained to improve your life and the lives of others, as tasks can be more rapidly completed to everybodies ultimate benefit.
Your positive response to these available options will bring you much closer to the success you've been patiently working towards and will reduce a great deal of your time, energy and effort.
This could be a significant advantage (which may come only once - if at all ever again) that could completely change your life. All you have to do is prepare yourself to take it - when you hear it.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
By doing this, substantial advantages can be gained to improve your life and the lives of others, as tasks can be more rapidly completed to everybodies ultimate benefit.
Your positive response to these available options will bring you much closer to the success you've been patiently working towards and will reduce a great deal of your time, energy and effort.
This could be a significant advantage (which may come only once - if at all ever again) that could completely change your life. All you have to do is prepare yourself to take it - when you hear it.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
This is a very dangerous situation to unfortunately find yourself in. By willingly agreeing to do something - and then deliberately going against that agreement - is prime and fertile ground for planting the seeds of endless guilt and self reproach. The negativity you'll generate knowing you intentionally let others down (and who knows the degree of damage this may do in the short or long term to other people's lives and opportunities) may not feel so bad at the time - but just wait and see how it begins to gnaw and eat away at you one day at a time like a parasite. This feeling could go on for years and years if not remedied.
But, how can you fix something that's as substantial as this? All of the problems that you've potentially caused (and the connected issues and complications) could extend even up unto death! Can you fix that one?
You 'fix' that one by not going anywhere near it in the first place! By just doing what you say you're going to do - and being loyal to those who trust you to do that - all of the above will be completely avoided. You just have to do as you say.
Another point to take from this is not to make promises you know you can't keep. Doing this for the sake of bravado, ego or to impress others is completely unnecessary and against positive living. There's no need for you to do anything as empty as this, because you can just do what you need to do and help others, as well as yourself, to achieve all of your sought after objectives.
Yet, if, for whatever reason, you believe you'll not be able to keep your obligations, try your very best to give advance warning to those who are expecting your input. At least this gives them a chance to prepare or take precautions to reduce any damaging impact. You can't really do much more than that.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
But, how can you fix something that's as substantial as this? All of the problems that you've potentially caused (and the connected issues and complications) could extend even up unto death! Can you fix that one?
You 'fix' that one by not going anywhere near it in the first place! By just doing what you say you're going to do - and being loyal to those who trust you to do that - all of the above will be completely avoided. You just have to do as you say.
Another point to take from this is not to make promises you know you can't keep. Doing this for the sake of bravado, ego or to impress others is completely unnecessary and against positive living. There's no need for you to do anything as empty as this, because you can just do what you need to do and help others, as well as yourself, to achieve all of your sought after objectives.
Yet, if, for whatever reason, you believe you'll not be able to keep your obligations, try your very best to give advance warning to those who are expecting your input. At least this gives them a chance to prepare or take precautions to reduce any damaging impact. You can't really do much more than that.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
Keeping to the positive lifestyle can only lead to your achievement and victory. You already know that you'll get positive for positive and negative for negative. This is guaranteed - as long as the goals you set don't rely on having the input, reaction or response from others.
Once this extra 'people' factor is introduced, you won't be able to control what they do - or if they do. If they don't do what's needed for you to reach the goal (and you're totally reliant upon them for this) then all of your input won't be enough to make the goal happen - no matter how positive it is.
But, you do know that any goal you set for yourself that is solely reliant upon you doing what you need to do - and you do all that's required to reach it - you will certainly reach that goal. It's a universal principle that has stood the test of time and always will do.
So, all you need to do is focus on how you can continue to live as positively as you can, to the very best of your ability, knowing that a balanced reward will always be waiting for you in the end.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
Once this extra 'people' factor is introduced, you won't be able to control what they do - or if they do. If they don't do what's needed for you to reach the goal (and you're totally reliant upon them for this) then all of your input won't be enough to make the goal happen - no matter how positive it is.
But, you do know that any goal you set for yourself that is solely reliant upon you doing what you need to do - and you do all that's required to reach it - you will certainly reach that goal. It's a universal principle that has stood the test of time and always will do.
So, all you need to do is focus on how you can continue to live as positively as you can, to the very best of your ability, knowing that a balanced reward will always be waiting for you in the end.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
The trials you're going to face on the road to success will undoubtedly be challenging to your resilience, determination and self belief. But, these are there to help you discover your true capacity as a human being which, for all we know, could be infinite. It may seem frustrating at the time, but it's really for your own overall good and growth.
When you meet these inevitable obstacles you have to be fearless (calm and confident); resolute (resolved and unswerving); stay focussed on your goal and overcome each of them one by one. This will be the point where you'll begin to gain that supreme self-awareness that'll take you above and beyond any fears you may have of not reaching them.
The power and intensity of the goal you've set should be able to take you through any set of trials you meet. If it doesn't, then you must immediately evaluate if this goal is what you truly want or need. If you find it isn't, then you'll have to ask yourself do you really believe in it? is it worth spending anymore time on? Should you find a more sincere goal to strive towards instead? The answers you reach here will be pivotal in how you choose to move forward.
The positivity you show at the start of the task will have the power to get you through whatever tests come. Just don't turn and run ...
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
When you meet these inevitable obstacles you have to be fearless (calm and confident); resolute (resolved and unswerving); stay focussed on your goal and overcome each of them one by one. This will be the point where you'll begin to gain that supreme self-awareness that'll take you above and beyond any fears you may have of not reaching them.
The power and intensity of the goal you've set should be able to take you through any set of trials you meet. If it doesn't, then you must immediately evaluate if this goal is what you truly want or need. If you find it isn't, then you'll have to ask yourself do you really believe in it? is it worth spending anymore time on? Should you find a more sincere goal to strive towards instead? The answers you reach here will be pivotal in how you choose to move forward.
The positivity you show at the start of the task will have the power to get you through whatever tests come. Just don't turn and run ...
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
The positive lifestyle isn't something that can be given - it has to be taken. You can't force someone to want to improve their life - especially if they don't want to. You can fret and distress yourself all day long, but if they're happy as they are, then you have to push on without them. You never know though, you may have planted a seed in their mind that may grow in the future, that's why you mustn't completely give up on them. Remember, you were probably once in their position too!
Because of this, it's quite possible that even your own family members may show a great deal of negativity towards your efforts to succeed. You may have the expectation that they'll support you all the way through - but you may actually find that they start to work against you! It's shocking, but there's a real chance of this happening. Are they doing this intentionally (because they're envious of your potential success) or are they doing it because they lack the vision you have and simply just can't 'see'? You may never know the answer to these questions, but the outcome will be the same for you either way.
Family and friendship ties are very important and it's unwise to severe them over petty issues and disputes that can be easily cleared up if all sides are willing. But, if you're placed into a situation where it's a choice between striving for success without them - or just giving up and abandoning all of your goals - then you should choose success every time. Remember, you're the one who has to live with your successes and failures - not them!
If it's a genuine case of them not being able to grasp your vision when it's presented to them, then once they see the fabulous results of your efforts, this realisation may prove to be the critical turning point for them. You'll then have their greater commitment and support for this and possible future endeavours. All of this starts with just you and the valuable goals you set and work towards successfully achieving.
It can be a tough choice to make, family or future success, but you can't sell yourself short, because then you'll never know and you'd only be ultimately wronging yourself if you do so.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
Because of this, it's quite possible that even your own family members may show a great deal of negativity towards your efforts to succeed. You may have the expectation that they'll support you all the way through - but you may actually find that they start to work against you! It's shocking, but there's a real chance of this happening. Are they doing this intentionally (because they're envious of your potential success) or are they doing it because they lack the vision you have and simply just can't 'see'? You may never know the answer to these questions, but the outcome will be the same for you either way.
Family and friendship ties are very important and it's unwise to severe them over petty issues and disputes that can be easily cleared up if all sides are willing. But, if you're placed into a situation where it's a choice between striving for success without them - or just giving up and abandoning all of your goals - then you should choose success every time. Remember, you're the one who has to live with your successes and failures - not them!
If it's a genuine case of them not being able to grasp your vision when it's presented to them, then once they see the fabulous results of your efforts, this realisation may prove to be the critical turning point for them. You'll then have their greater commitment and support for this and possible future endeavours. All of this starts with just you and the valuable goals you set and work towards successfully achieving.
It can be a tough choice to make, family or future success, but you can't sell yourself short, because then you'll never know and you'd only be ultimately wronging yourself if you do so.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
Moving away from the negative people in your life will have its consequences - but the advantages will always outweigh the disadvantages. Their negative input will always generally produce a direct or indirect negative output, whether you recognise it or not. So, no matter how much you think you may enjoy certain aspects of their company (their chat, jokes, banter etc.) when you sum it all up, you'll probably find they don't really add that much to the quality of your life. In the long run, you're not really missing out on anything!
It's at this stage that you'll hopefully realise this loss will ultimately be your gain. You've now got more space for the benefits of positive living to enter and grow in your life and you don't have to contend with the negativity of those you've left behind. You'll probably experience the results almost immediately as you feel 'lighter' and less burdened with the unnecessary 'weight' of other people's 'trash'!
I know that sounds quite blunt, but you'd be surprised at the amount of psychological and emotional 'stuff' you can unwittingly collect that clogs up your life from other people. Their negativity can (and will) begin to affect you - and most of the time you won't even know it!
Being afraid of making such a significant and bold move is understandable. You will definitely find out afterwards that you've got less companionship and/or less opportunities open to you, which you may have previously enjoyed. But, as long as you keep focussed on the much bigger rewards that are bound to come, you'll find the motivation to carry on.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
It's at this stage that you'll hopefully realise this loss will ultimately be your gain. You've now got more space for the benefits of positive living to enter and grow in your life and you don't have to contend with the negativity of those you've left behind. You'll probably experience the results almost immediately as you feel 'lighter' and less burdened with the unnecessary 'weight' of other people's 'trash'!
I know that sounds quite blunt, but you'd be surprised at the amount of psychological and emotional 'stuff' you can unwittingly collect that clogs up your life from other people. Their negativity can (and will) begin to affect you - and most of the time you won't even know it!
Being afraid of making such a significant and bold move is understandable. You will definitely find out afterwards that you've got less companionship and/or less opportunities open to you, which you may have previously enjoyed. But, as long as you keep focussed on the much bigger rewards that are bound to come, you'll find the motivation to carry on.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
With so many people desperate to find meaningful answers to life's challenges out there, this despair can rapidly lead them to offering their wealth to those who make the biggest and boldest promises. The longer they trail them along with this 'carrot and stick' approach, the more money they'll make as they do it. The end result - a complete waste of time, money and a string of shattered dreams for their victims - and a big, big windfall for them.
Using your finances to help bring about the best outcomes for yourself goes without question. To spend it sensibly in your journey towards success can protect you from becoming a victim of others' opportunism - and/or your own potential stagnation. Using portions of it to plan and ease your way forward will have better results than just hoarding it up or spending it on things that can't really help you to move forward. Let's face it, It's got to be spent on something. If it's not going to be used for your overall accomplishment, then what else?
They say that money comes and money goes - but it can be harder for it to come then for it to go! How you use your finances is of course your own business, but hopefully you'll be able to see the sense in using it positively on your journey to achievement.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
Using your finances to help bring about the best outcomes for yourself goes without question. To spend it sensibly in your journey towards success can protect you from becoming a victim of others' opportunism - and/or your own potential stagnation. Using portions of it to plan and ease your way forward will have better results than just hoarding it up or spending it on things that can't really help you to move forward. Let's face it, It's got to be spent on something. If it's not going to be used for your overall accomplishment, then what else?
They say that money comes and money goes - but it can be harder for it to come then for it to go! How you use your finances is of course your own business, but hopefully you'll be able to see the sense in using it positively on your journey to achievement.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
You can change your life for the better any time that you want to. The positive lifestyle is available 24 hours a day, 365 days a year. It's never closed, 'out for lunch' or shut down. There's nobody physically stopping you from accepting it and you don't need to rely on anyone else to help you do this either. So, what stops so many people from choosing it?
When you become satisfied living negatively (and you get accustomed to the stress, problems and difficulties it brings with it) it can be exceedingly hard to pull yourself up and out of this spiralling descent. If you know you've got to make a tremendous effort to do this - then that in itself can easily make you start to think negatively e.g., 'I can't be bothered', 'I'll do it tomorrow', 'I am happy as I am' etc. and so you steadily reduce the positive mental energy needed to even make the effort to try. The longer you stay fallen like this - the harder it becomes to rise.
It can be compared to standing at the foot of a mountain getting ready to climb it. You see its size and vast expanse ahead and you may begin to have increasingly negative thoughts about if you can make it to the top or not. But, you'll never know unless you try - and if you don't try then you'll never know! Living the rest of your life with this persistent thought ('I wonder what would've happened if ...?') could prove to be one of the greatest regrets you'll ever have. Ask yourself, is it worth it?
So, the choice is ultimately yours. Choose to live positively and see what happens - or stay living negatively and know what's going to happen. It takes a good degree of courage, determination and faith to make the change to living positively, but the end results far outweigh the efforts you'll have to make.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
When you become satisfied living negatively (and you get accustomed to the stress, problems and difficulties it brings with it) it can be exceedingly hard to pull yourself up and out of this spiralling descent. If you know you've got to make a tremendous effort to do this - then that in itself can easily make you start to think negatively e.g., 'I can't be bothered', 'I'll do it tomorrow', 'I am happy as I am' etc. and so you steadily reduce the positive mental energy needed to even make the effort to try. The longer you stay fallen like this - the harder it becomes to rise.
It can be compared to standing at the foot of a mountain getting ready to climb it. You see its size and vast expanse ahead and you may begin to have increasingly negative thoughts about if you can make it to the top or not. But, you'll never know unless you try - and if you don't try then you'll never know! Living the rest of your life with this persistent thought ('I wonder what would've happened if ...?') could prove to be one of the greatest regrets you'll ever have. Ask yourself, is it worth it?
So, the choice is ultimately yours. Choose to live positively and see what happens - or stay living negatively and know what's going to happen. It takes a good degree of courage, determination and faith to make the change to living positively, but the end results far outweigh the efforts you'll have to make.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
You know you have to commit yourself to positive living in order to succeed in all that you do, and your results in life will accurately reflect your efforts. You can control your destiny through what you choose to do - or not choose to do - and most of the time it doesn't involve anyone else.
There are growing numbers of people who are beginning to recognise this simple principle and are improving their lives immensely. These are those who you'll have far more in common with, as you're all striving forward towards a state of victory.
This means that your journey doesn't need to be a solitary one. There are people who you can join forces with; gain inspiration from and share success with out there. Making efforts to find and befriend them is one of the best things you can do on you journey towards your goals. By doing this, you'll be able to motivate them and they'll motivate you at those times you need it. You'll support each other towards triumph
At times, it can look and feel as if you're the only one. But, this may only be because many of your family and friends aren't be moving in a similar direction. Given time, they may get there though - so don't give up on them entirely. So, when you meet these new 'success seekers' do your best to build relationships with them because you need each other to win!
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
There are growing numbers of people who are beginning to recognise this simple principle and are improving their lives immensely. These are those who you'll have far more in common with, as you're all striving forward towards a state of victory.
This means that your journey doesn't need to be a solitary one. There are people who you can join forces with; gain inspiration from and share success with out there. Making efforts to find and befriend them is one of the best things you can do on you journey towards your goals. By doing this, you'll be able to motivate them and they'll motivate you at those times you need it. You'll support each other towards triumph
At times, it can look and feel as if you're the only one. But, this may only be because many of your family and friends aren't be moving in a similar direction. Given time, they may get there though - so don't give up on them entirely. So, when you meet these new 'success seekers' do your best to build relationships with them because you need each other to win!
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
For every positive there must be a negative. It's a universal balance that's found within everything, everywhere. Your efforts to build positivity must then attract negativity somewhere, sometime - especially from other people. When it comes, you know you can deflect it by using Oppositive (or 'flip') thinking and also by physically keeping away from them. Through doing this, you've pretty much got all angles covered.
Have no doubts about it, this is fundamentally a battle of wills. Your positive will against their negative will - and who wins is yet to be decided! Although this may sound rather dramatic, it's basically what the situation is and, just like in any battle, you've got to try to understand your opponent in order to increase your chances of winning.
It's hard to say what may have made (and keeps) certain people wanting to choose to live negatively. Could it be aspects of their upbringing? The company they keep? Sheer willfulness etc.? Take your pick, but this is something that they'll hopefully choose to explore for themselves one day. But, come this glorious day, you'll have to learn how to defend yourself 'in the ring' as best you can, because in the end - there can be only one.
Knowing that this is what you're up against means you've got to be solid, inflexible and resilient with your practice of positivity - and equally so against the negativity you find in others. This situation cannot be taken lightly as you don't know what lengths others are prepared to go to in order to bring their negativity into your life. If they succeed, then you'll be the loser and who knows what damage this'll cause to you and those around you in the future.
Your practice of positive living will beat their negativity every single time - if you stick with it no matter what 'knockout punch' they try to throw at you. You can do this ...
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
Have no doubts about it, this is fundamentally a battle of wills. Your positive will against their negative will - and who wins is yet to be decided! Although this may sound rather dramatic, it's basically what the situation is and, just like in any battle, you've got to try to understand your opponent in order to increase your chances of winning.
It's hard to say what may have made (and keeps) certain people wanting to choose to live negatively. Could it be aspects of their upbringing? The company they keep? Sheer willfulness etc.? Take your pick, but this is something that they'll hopefully choose to explore for themselves one day. But, come this glorious day, you'll have to learn how to defend yourself 'in the ring' as best you can, because in the end - there can be only one.
Knowing that this is what you're up against means you've got to be solid, inflexible and resilient with your practice of positivity - and equally so against the negativity you find in others. This situation cannot be taken lightly as you don't know what lengths others are prepared to go to in order to bring their negativity into your life. If they succeed, then you'll be the loser and who knows what damage this'll cause to you and those around you in the future.
Your practice of positive living will beat their negativity every single time - if you stick with it no matter what 'knockout punch' they try to throw at you. You can do this ...
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
Success is already yours, as long as you keep living positively. You'll be able to have all of the outputs (accomplishments) you want to achieve - based strictly upon the inputs (efforts) you make. So, if input = output (in the individual goals you set for yourself) then following this simple formula will bring you success every single time. All you need to do is have the focus and discipline to stay on track and not give up.
Your continuous positive thoughts and actions will help to support and empower you in all parts of your journey on the road to personal victory. This cumulative result will begin to affect many facets of your being (for example, you'll notice things about yourself that you've never paid much attention to, somehow becoming 'better') essentially, making you think and feel unstoppable.
This positive energy will spread within you like sunshine on a rainy day and brighten up all that you think and do. You can be the person you've always wanted to be. Just keep on living positively.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
Your continuous positive thoughts and actions will help to support and empower you in all parts of your journey on the road to personal victory. This cumulative result will begin to affect many facets of your being (for example, you'll notice things about yourself that you've never paid much attention to, somehow becoming 'better') essentially, making you think and feel unstoppable.
This positive energy will spread within you like sunshine on a rainy day and brighten up all that you think and do. You can be the person you've always wanted to be. Just keep on living positively.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
Negativity can only bring about negativity. Sometimes it may seem as if it doesn't (and the culprits appear to get away with it) but the 'boomerang backlash' discussed in a previous blog will always be ever present - always ready to do what is inevitable and return to the one who has thrown it. Is living with this constant anxiety really worth it?
Choosing not to follow a negative lifestyle of is one of the biggest favours you could ever do for yourself - or could ever come your way. You'll directly avoid all of those serious problems, complications and difficulties that can only come from living a life like this. So, why would you want to bring all of this mess into your life? How much will you gain by doing this - and just how much will you lose?
It's all in your power to do for yourself what you need to do. You know what's at stake and you know what can happen when you make choices that go against your best interests - no matter how tempting they may sound at the time. It's all up (or down) to you. This may sound harsh, but failure often comes to those who deserve it!
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
Choosing not to follow a negative lifestyle of is one of the biggest favours you could ever do for yourself - or could ever come your way. You'll directly avoid all of those serious problems, complications and difficulties that can only come from living a life like this. So, why would you want to bring all of this mess into your life? How much will you gain by doing this - and just how much will you lose?
It's all in your power to do for yourself what you need to do. You know what's at stake and you know what can happen when you make choices that go against your best interests - no matter how tempting they may sound at the time. It's all up (or down) to you. This may sound harsh, but failure often comes to those who deserve it!
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
Everybody loves the story of a person from unremarkable origins who goes through severe hardship; never gives up despite the tremendous odds - but then comes out a winner in the end. It's the stuff of heroes and heroines told countless times throughout the eons. The journey you're now on is one such story.
What is often found in these legends is that at a critical moment (when it seems they'll have to surrender and accept defeat) then that was when an extraordinary type of help came from unexpected quarters and helped to change everything. It may seem a bit far fetched (or perhaps it just makes for good television) but it's the belief in this particular element in success seeking (that you'll be successful in the end) that can make so much of a difference on the journey.
Having this unbreakable hope and optimism that just when you need it, you'll get that assistance to help you over that final hurdle, shows that anything can happen on this trail. You'll never know who you'll meet on your fantastic journey or who may be aware of what you're trying to do (and is a secret supporter or admirer of your persistent efforts). This may be where that special help will come from when you need it most.
Of course, there's no guarantee that this help will come, or if you'll ever even need it, but the positive mental energy this can give will empower you to keep on keeping on against all odds.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
What is often found in these legends is that at a critical moment (when it seems they'll have to surrender and accept defeat) then that was when an extraordinary type of help came from unexpected quarters and helped to change everything. It may seem a bit far fetched (or perhaps it just makes for good television) but it's the belief in this particular element in success seeking (that you'll be successful in the end) that can make so much of a difference on the journey.
Having this unbreakable hope and optimism that just when you need it, you'll get that assistance to help you over that final hurdle, shows that anything can happen on this trail. You'll never know who you'll meet on your fantastic journey or who may be aware of what you're trying to do (and is a secret supporter or admirer of your persistent efforts). This may be where that special help will come from when you need it most.
Of course, there's no guarantee that this help will come, or if you'll ever even need it, but the positive mental energy this can give will empower you to keep on keeping on against all odds.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
Success seeking isn't always (thankfully) carried out alone. As a result, you'll possibly have opportunities to work with other people on your journey. You may find this exhilarating - especially if you've being struggling by yourself and finding it very difficult. But, if you're now working with others, you've got to realise they must have an equal say in how things will go - and you'll have to recognise and acknowledge their input, equally.
This will bring many new challenges to you personally, as you can no longer simply 'get up and go' and do what you like, when you like. You may be quite used to doing this (and would like to continue) but if you carry on, you'll probably begin to seriously damage these relationships right from the start. You'll now have to learn how to effectively manage your zeal, energy and vitality - as your levels of motivation may differ to your partners. They may have greater or lesser levels of motivation. If it's lesser, then this is where serious problems may become increasingly apparent between you.
This can become a major source of frustration for all concerned - especially (if you quickly realise) you're not really that well suited to each other. You'll now need to get used to getting their approval, permissions and agreement etc. - before you decide to do anything. You may soon begin to feel like you're being held back and constrained as you no longer have the freedom to do as you will. But, if you don't include your partners, then they'll begin to feel like you're excluding them and they're being undermined.
It's a really tough mix to get right, but If you succeed, it can be the basis of a truly positive partnership for great achievement that can maximise your ultimate accomplishments. You must, however, always remember to include your partner's thoughts, insights and authorisations - before you choose to do anything. Failing to do this is where you'll find your problems will really begin. The road to success doesn't need to be a lonely road to travel - but you can now hopefully see why many choose to go it alone.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
This will bring many new challenges to you personally, as you can no longer simply 'get up and go' and do what you like, when you like. You may be quite used to doing this (and would like to continue) but if you carry on, you'll probably begin to seriously damage these relationships right from the start. You'll now have to learn how to effectively manage your zeal, energy and vitality - as your levels of motivation may differ to your partners. They may have greater or lesser levels of motivation. If it's lesser, then this is where serious problems may become increasingly apparent between you.
This can become a major source of frustration for all concerned - especially (if you quickly realise) you're not really that well suited to each other. You'll now need to get used to getting their approval, permissions and agreement etc. - before you decide to do anything. You may soon begin to feel like you're being held back and constrained as you no longer have the freedom to do as you will. But, if you don't include your partners, then they'll begin to feel like you're excluding them and they're being undermined.
It's a really tough mix to get right, but If you succeed, it can be the basis of a truly positive partnership for great achievement that can maximise your ultimate accomplishments. You must, however, always remember to include your partner's thoughts, insights and authorisations - before you choose to do anything. Failing to do this is where you'll find your problems will really begin. The road to success doesn't need to be a lonely road to travel - but you can now hopefully see why many choose to go it alone.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
Making sure you keep the key details of your success efforts to yourself is always highly recommended. There's no easy way for you to know who has your best interests at heart (and who doesn't) from the people who are around you. Because of this, it's quite possible you may discuss particular ideas with someone, who may then choose to respond by being thoroughly negative towards your plans. They've not helped in the slightest and all this does is bring unnecessary apathy and pessimism into your life when you don't need it
By keeping this information secret, you protect yourself from this type of reaction at possibly the most critical stage of development. The fact you may be seeking the input of others is an indication your idea is not yet fully formed. The response you get could easily tip you one way or the other. If they're positive, then you're on the right track. If they're negative, then you might decide to abandon an idea which had the potential to substantially improve your life. How devastating would that be?
Besides, you don't know who's out there just waiting to come across a great idea which they can quickly seize and then make millions from. This can easily happen - especially if they've got everything they need already in place. The road to success can be a very competitive one too. Secrecy is one of your most valuable assets.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
By keeping this information secret, you protect yourself from this type of reaction at possibly the most critical stage of development. The fact you may be seeking the input of others is an indication your idea is not yet fully formed. The response you get could easily tip you one way or the other. If they're positive, then you're on the right track. If they're negative, then you might decide to abandon an idea which had the potential to substantially improve your life. How devastating would that be?
Besides, you don't know who's out there just waiting to come across a great idea which they can quickly seize and then make millions from. This can easily happen - especially if they've got everything they need already in place. The road to success can be a very competitive one too. Secrecy is one of your most valuable assets.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
No matter how things may get on the rocky road to personal victory, one of your greatest advantages will be your ability to remain filled with hope that you'll succeed in the end. This unique element of success seeking can't be computed or quantified. It's simply immeasurable. But, the more you have of this - the more you'll be able to potentially attain as the challenges begin to arrive.
By remembering to do this at all times, you'll fully embed the true intensity of the power of the goal you seek into your mind and being. The greater this intensity - the greater power you'll produce to reach that goal. This is the point where you'll be able to truly see if the ultimate goal you've set for yourself, is indeed the one that you sincerely want and desire.
If you find that even though you do this, you still don't feel genuinely motivated, then this could probably mean the goal you've set isn't the one you really want - and continuing on like this won't really amount to what you honestly want or need. The positive side to acknowledging this is that you'll be able to immediately reassess your objectives and motivations etc. and ensure the next time you start, the new goals you've set are the right ones. This is where you'll be able to finally feel that essential 'success energy' needed to rise above all that you'll face.
Remembering to use positive thoughts and having the belief that you can win against all of the odds that do (and will) confront you, is the supreme master key to opening all of the doors that lie closed ahead.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
By remembering to do this at all times, you'll fully embed the true intensity of the power of the goal you seek into your mind and being. The greater this intensity - the greater power you'll produce to reach that goal. This is the point where you'll be able to truly see if the ultimate goal you've set for yourself, is indeed the one that you sincerely want and desire.
If you find that even though you do this, you still don't feel genuinely motivated, then this could probably mean the goal you've set isn't the one you really want - and continuing on like this won't really amount to what you honestly want or need. The positive side to acknowledging this is that you'll be able to immediately reassess your objectives and motivations etc. and ensure the next time you start, the new goals you've set are the right ones. This is where you'll be able to finally feel that essential 'success energy' needed to rise above all that you'll face.
Remembering to use positive thoughts and having the belief that you can win against all of the odds that do (and will) confront you, is the supreme master key to opening all of the doors that lie closed ahead.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
One of the biggest challenges facing you will be the possibility of breaking away from the negative people you may have around you. These could be friends you've known for years (or even family members you've known all of your life) who are just increasingly or totally out of step with you - and this situation just doesn't seem as if it will ever improve. This really is a 'crossroads' moment where you'll have to make some tough decisions about your future - and who's going to be in it!
If you decide to make that break away from such people, then you need to know that your choices can't be based upon anger, bitterness or resentment at their decision to live how they please - negatively or not. That's where they currently are in life (and may choose to stay) for whatever reasons they have. This is a true instance of our human right to use our free will and shows you cannot force anyone to be anything they don't want to be.
You can't allow your deepest hopes, desires and wishes for them to live positively to frustrate you into negative actions yourself. If you do, then you'll now become an unnecessary source of conflict and distress in the failing relationship. This will have the completely opposite effect of what you're seeking and can swiftly turn you into the 'bad guy'! By having this understanding, you save them from showing continued defiance towards you - and you save yourself from the ongoing anxiety of their resistance.
However, things can change - and so can people. Remember, you had to go through this transition yourself to become the person you are today. You weren't born with this knowledge and the whole process took time for you to learn and adopt. It comes when it comes (if it comes) and there's no quickening or slowing of it when the time is right. Your positive actions in situations like this may prove to be the basis for them finally leaving negativity behind in the end.
You just don't know what'll happen in the lives of others, so if you have to separate from them, do it as positively as you possibly can - because you just don't know what may come of it in time.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
If you decide to make that break away from such people, then you need to know that your choices can't be based upon anger, bitterness or resentment at their decision to live how they please - negatively or not. That's where they currently are in life (and may choose to stay) for whatever reasons they have. This is a true instance of our human right to use our free will and shows you cannot force anyone to be anything they don't want to be.
You can't allow your deepest hopes, desires and wishes for them to live positively to frustrate you into negative actions yourself. If you do, then you'll now become an unnecessary source of conflict and distress in the failing relationship. This will have the completely opposite effect of what you're seeking and can swiftly turn you into the 'bad guy'! By having this understanding, you save them from showing continued defiance towards you - and you save yourself from the ongoing anxiety of their resistance.
However, things can change - and so can people. Remember, you had to go through this transition yourself to become the person you are today. You weren't born with this knowledge and the whole process took time for you to learn and adopt. It comes when it comes (if it comes) and there's no quickening or slowing of it when the time is right. Your positive actions in situations like this may prove to be the basis for them finally leaving negativity behind in the end.
You just don't know what'll happen in the lives of others, so if you have to separate from them, do it as positively as you possibly can - because you just don't know what may come of it in time.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
When it's time to go - it's time to go! But, do you recognise this? Do you find yourself just 'hanging around', delaying and stalling etc. from leaving whatever has to be left? Those in charge may then be forced to abruptly tell you to get out - which you may then feel is them being rude. So, which one is it? Are they being rude - or do you just not know 'what time it is'?
You can usually tell when you should get going. The conversations becomes more forced; less fluid and you just start running out of things to say. So, this would be a good time to depart - surely? This context fits into the tiresome evening meal invitation; the dwindling house party or the flagging meal at a restaurant. But, what about the context of success seeking. Can it also fit into this?
When you know it's time to leave the company of the negative people around you, it's possible to also sense this too. Just like already stated above, the conversations become more forced; less fluid and you simply start to run out of things to say. Why? Because you're now going in different (or even opposing) directions. Just how much do you now really have in common? Sounds painful right - but if this doesn't tell you that 'the party's over' - then what will?
This takes you right back to that 'crossroads' moment in your life. Are you going to stay or go? You don't know exactly what'll happen if you leave - but you do know your positive input will always bring about a positive output. However, you know exactly what'll happen if you stay - and it'll only get worse too. Staying longer than is necessary really is a choice. For the peace of mind of everyone involved, try to make the right one.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
You can usually tell when you should get going. The conversations becomes more forced; less fluid and you just start running out of things to say. So, this would be a good time to depart - surely? This context fits into the tiresome evening meal invitation; the dwindling house party or the flagging meal at a restaurant. But, what about the context of success seeking. Can it also fit into this?
When you know it's time to leave the company of the negative people around you, it's possible to also sense this too. Just like already stated above, the conversations become more forced; less fluid and you simply start to run out of things to say. Why? Because you're now going in different (or even opposing) directions. Just how much do you now really have in common? Sounds painful right - but if this doesn't tell you that 'the party's over' - then what will?
This takes you right back to that 'crossroads' moment in your life. Are you going to stay or go? You don't know exactly what'll happen if you leave - but you do know your positive input will always bring about a positive output. However, you know exactly what'll happen if you stay - and it'll only get worse too. Staying longer than is necessary really is a choice. For the peace of mind of everyone involved, try to make the right one.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
Your fellow success seekers are your 'brothers and sisters' on the journey towards triumph. They're going through similar challenges and obstacles as you are and can relate to and understand you best. Because of this unique relationship, you can support each other through all of the struggles to be faced collectively. Doing this together helps to dramatically increase the positive options that are now going to be available to access.
Your efforts, actions and responses towards each other helps to build an optimism and a belief that you'll succeed in the end - no matter what. Every major milestone achieved should be celebrated and the person who's achieved it recognised for their feats. What this begins to do is promote resilience and encourage hope for the chance of future success for all. This helps to show that whatever is striven for can be realised and should never be seen as impossible.
This magnificent exchange of positive energy swirling amongst all involved, can only bring about an expanding feeling of desire, positivity and aspiration towards accomplishment. Although this approach may seem quite minor to some, you can never dismiss the great value of celebrating and showing appreciation to those who genuinely deserve it. You never know, one day it could be you!
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
Your efforts, actions and responses towards each other helps to build an optimism and a belief that you'll succeed in the end - no matter what. Every major milestone achieved should be celebrated and the person who's achieved it recognised for their feats. What this begins to do is promote resilience and encourage hope for the chance of future success for all. This helps to show that whatever is striven for can be realised and should never be seen as impossible.
This magnificent exchange of positive energy swirling amongst all involved, can only bring about an expanding feeling of desire, positivity and aspiration towards accomplishment. Although this approach may seem quite minor to some, you can never dismiss the great value of celebrating and showing appreciation to those who genuinely deserve it. You never know, one day it could be you!
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
Anyone who's working towards reaching a positive outcome on the road to success deserves a degree of respect. Your own personal journey should have now shown you what it takes and, as such, you've had direct and first hand experience. It certainly isn't easy, as it requires significant determination, dedication - and (last but certainly not least) perspiration!
Being mocked for seeking success, however, 'goes with the territory' as they say. It's happened to many men and women in the past who are today recognised as great pioneers and achievers in all fields. With every positive - there has to be a negative, so it makes absolute sense that there'll be negative reactions to your positive actions. It just has to be that way - so get used to it!
You then need to have the strength of will and resolution to disregard their ridicule and forge ahead to reaching your goal. It's the listening to, believing and following their negative comments that'll take you off course and definitely make you lose your way. So, you can either choose to ignore them - or choose to listen to them. But, the end result will be undeniable evidence that you were either right or wrong, and the whole world will now be able to see the truth.
The stories of the great innovators mentioned above can usually be found in books, online articles - and perhaps even at the movies! They were indeed scorned, but the fantastic end results proved them right - and their detractors have all but been forgotten. So, ensure that you never become of those who scoff at the bold efforts of other success seekers. You'd only be showing your own deeply ingrained and unchallenged insecurities.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
Being mocked for seeking success, however, 'goes with the territory' as they say. It's happened to many men and women in the past who are today recognised as great pioneers and achievers in all fields. With every positive - there has to be a negative, so it makes absolute sense that there'll be negative reactions to your positive actions. It just has to be that way - so get used to it!
You then need to have the strength of will and resolution to disregard their ridicule and forge ahead to reaching your goal. It's the listening to, believing and following their negative comments that'll take you off course and definitely make you lose your way. So, you can either choose to ignore them - or choose to listen to them. But, the end result will be undeniable evidence that you were either right or wrong, and the whole world will now be able to see the truth.
The stories of the great innovators mentioned above can usually be found in books, online articles - and perhaps even at the movies! They were indeed scorned, but the fantastic end results proved them right - and their detractors have all but been forgotten. So, ensure that you never become of those who scoff at the bold efforts of other success seekers. You'd only be showing your own deeply ingrained and unchallenged insecurities.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
With so many people out there giving their opinion on how to 'make it', it's quite common to hear a lot of bewildering and confusing ideas as to how it should be done. Let's face it, if you don't really know how to do something (but you don't want to lose face in front of others) you may start rambling on about complex theories and concepts that you don't really understand - or even believe in! All this does is potentially confuse you, as well as those you speak to. It's a very strong indication that you should be wary of listening to anybody who tries to advise you in this manner.
The ability to speak in a clear and straightforward way is a hugely valuable quality for you to have. If the principles you follow are genuinely and truly plausible, then they'll be simple to explain and simple to understand. It's this simplicity that'll ultimately prove whether or not what you believe in really is valid. You shouldn't have to, 'go all the way around the world' in order to explain something that should be direct, clear and uncomplicated. If you do, then you need to have a good rethink of what you're observing. Just say it straight!
As a result, you'll also be able to have much greater clarity of mind when you know you can think (and subsequently speak) in a concise and direct manner and not confuse yourself with wildly intricate notions that, by those very same intricacies, only go onto imply their probable fallibility.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
The ability to speak in a clear and straightforward way is a hugely valuable quality for you to have. If the principles you follow are genuinely and truly plausible, then they'll be simple to explain and simple to understand. It's this simplicity that'll ultimately prove whether or not what you believe in really is valid. You shouldn't have to, 'go all the way around the world' in order to explain something that should be direct, clear and uncomplicated. If you do, then you need to have a good rethink of what you're observing. Just say it straight!
As a result, you'll also be able to have much greater clarity of mind when you know you can think (and subsequently speak) in a concise and direct manner and not confuse yourself with wildly intricate notions that, by those very same intricacies, only go onto imply their probable fallibility.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
Every step you take towards your goals - is another step towards personal victory, immense confidence and self assurity. The positive results you'll be able to increasingly witness can only raise your inner faith and belief that you'll eventually get there. You'll soon begin to feel great about yourself and what you can do - and nobody will ever be able to take this away from you - because you've proven it to the one person who truly needs to know this - YOU!
This type of bold self-confidence, conviction and fortitude can only come from you setting and successfully achieving valuable goals - no matter what. By doing this, you begin to discover your hidden and/or unknown capabilities - and also build upon the ones you're more aware of. This is where you'll reach that momentous intersection where you'll begin to believe you can achieve anything you want to.
The positive energy being generated (solely through the power of your own determined efforts) will subsequently help to give you that one thing so many are desperately seeking - happiness. That's right, your inner happiness is directly linked to you consistently setting and successfully achieving valuable goals - no matter what. Each achievement reached will make you feel happier and more firm within yourself.
So, if you want to start genuinely building a life of happiness, satisfaction and joy - set and successfully achieve valuable goals - no matter what!
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
This type of bold self-confidence, conviction and fortitude can only come from you setting and successfully achieving valuable goals - no matter what. By doing this, you begin to discover your hidden and/or unknown capabilities - and also build upon the ones you're more aware of. This is where you'll reach that momentous intersection where you'll begin to believe you can achieve anything you want to.
The positive energy being generated (solely through the power of your own determined efforts) will subsequently help to give you that one thing so many are desperately seeking - happiness. That's right, your inner happiness is directly linked to you consistently setting and successfully achieving valuable goals - no matter what. Each achievement reached will make you feel happier and more firm within yourself.
So, if you want to start genuinely building a life of happiness, satisfaction and joy - set and successfully achieve valuable goals - no matter what!
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
You've only got so much amount of time to do what you have to do, in order to be the success you were born to be. It's no secret that success takes time - and time is one commodity they don't make anymore! This means you must ensure you use the limited amount of time you have available as best as you can. Everything you do has got to make a difference on this extra special journey you're taking.
The positive lifestyle gives you all you need to reach your destination. By choosing not to follow it consistently is where you'll find that problems will soon start to occur. Remember, positive input=positive output. Negative input=negative output. So, you can't really afford to spend any of your valuable time doing anything that doesn't get you the results you want or need.
You're in total control over what you do in the time you have. It's as simple as that. As long as you do all that you know you must do (and don't waste your precious time doing otherwise) you'll achieve all that you dream of.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
The positive lifestyle gives you all you need to reach your destination. By choosing not to follow it consistently is where you'll find that problems will soon start to occur. Remember, positive input=positive output. Negative input=negative output. So, you can't really afford to spend any of your valuable time doing anything that doesn't get you the results you want or need.
You're in total control over what you do in the time you have. It's as simple as that. As long as you do all that you know you must do (and don't waste your precious time doing otherwise) you'll achieve all that you dream of.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
Having one success after the next can be truly energising and exhilarating. Just imagine, success after success after success with all of your endeavours. Wow! The amount of self-belief, self-confidence and self-esteem would be simply phenomenal. What a place to be as a person who's striving towards a life of peace, success and happiness - and you deserve it all. This sounds terrific, but could this fantastic amount of positivity also lead to negativity?
History will show you that there were many who similarly experienced this type of unique life situation - yet they allowed elements of this to destroy them. This damaged their ego and made them begin to have an over extended opinion of their self-importance. They then began to think and act in a manner that made them believe they were superior to others and, so, they began to treat them as such. Some even allowed themselves to become so self-deceived that they began to think they were greater then then those who taught them. History further reveals that they typically ended up as a victim of their own egotism and, subsequently, faced the ultimate impact of those who choose this path.
A powerful lesson to be learnt. But, how does this affect you on your own journey to success you might ask? This example shows that it's very easy to be swayed and seduced into the direction of these historical individuals (especially if you don't realise that it can happen) and you're feeling 'indestructible' about your achievements. Being in complete control of yourself at this critical stage is essential. You can't allow yourself to begin to think and feel that you're better than others - and so you don't need to recognise or acknowledge them or their viewpoints. This degree of haughtiness may well (as has been shown in the past) prove to be the painful end of you. You're the only one who can stop this.
The need for humility (the very first blog in this guide) shows you have to maintain this in order to truly achieve your goals. Humility and contempt are absolute opposites. One positive, the other negative. One will make you rise - one will make you fall, so you must fully understand this in order to genuinely move ahead. You already know you need the help of others to take you to victory. So, you can't afford to turn people against you because of your own 'unchecked conceit'.
Sincerely adhering to the principles of positive living will help keep you on track - and also keep your feet firmly set on the ground. Success is a wonderful thing and you deserve it (especially if you've been thoroughly committed to gaining it) but always remember that you're only as good as your last achievement - and that you probably wouldn't have been able to do it without at least one other persons help.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
History will show you that there were many who similarly experienced this type of unique life situation - yet they allowed elements of this to destroy them. This damaged their ego and made them begin to have an over extended opinion of their self-importance. They then began to think and act in a manner that made them believe they were superior to others and, so, they began to treat them as such. Some even allowed themselves to become so self-deceived that they began to think they were greater then then those who taught them. History further reveals that they typically ended up as a victim of their own egotism and, subsequently, faced the ultimate impact of those who choose this path.
A powerful lesson to be learnt. But, how does this affect you on your own journey to success you might ask? This example shows that it's very easy to be swayed and seduced into the direction of these historical individuals (especially if you don't realise that it can happen) and you're feeling 'indestructible' about your achievements. Being in complete control of yourself at this critical stage is essential. You can't allow yourself to begin to think and feel that you're better than others - and so you don't need to recognise or acknowledge them or their viewpoints. This degree of haughtiness may well (as has been shown in the past) prove to be the painful end of you. You're the only one who can stop this.
The need for humility (the very first blog in this guide) shows you have to maintain this in order to truly achieve your goals. Humility and contempt are absolute opposites. One positive, the other negative. One will make you rise - one will make you fall, so you must fully understand this in order to genuinely move ahead. You already know you need the help of others to take you to victory. So, you can't afford to turn people against you because of your own 'unchecked conceit'.
Sincerely adhering to the principles of positive living will help keep you on track - and also keep your feet firmly set on the ground. Success is a wonderful thing and you deserve it (especially if you've been thoroughly committed to gaining it) but always remember that you're only as good as your last achievement - and that you probably wouldn't have been able to do it without at least one other persons help.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
Feeling good about yourself and what you've achieved is a fabulous thing. Why shouldn't you celebrate these aspects of your life? The sacrifices and dedication has finally paid off and you can now rest contented - for a while. But, do your personal successes mean that other people (and what they're working towards) are now somehow irrelevant? Are your achievements in any way linked to the achievements of others?
This takes you once again right back to the need to control that negative element within yourself, that can start to make you believe you're better than others - because of your achievements. You've absolutely no idea what challenges everybody else is facing on their journey to success or how the journey is affecting them. You've equally no idea what everybody else has been through in their life which may still be proving to negatively impact them. So, reaching the goal is what's important - not who gets there first.
The key here is to value your achievements - but also value the efforts of others as they too strive towards their future achievements. They'll also get there in the end - which is what really counts. By you not acknowledging this fact, makes your achievements less impressive, vain and can begin to invalidate you as a truly 'positive person' also. This approach will help keep you balanced with how you relate to others and not lead you to dismiss or discount them and what they're trying to do.
Your accomplishments aren't the only measurement of you as a person. How you manage them and interact with others also plays a substantial role. The casual disregarding of those around you can indirectly show a degree of insecurity and self-doubt. Perhaps those who do this have a deep down feeling that they don't really deserve what they've got (because of how they got it) and live in constant fear of losing it all one day?
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
This takes you once again right back to the need to control that negative element within yourself, that can start to make you believe you're better than others - because of your achievements. You've absolutely no idea what challenges everybody else is facing on their journey to success or how the journey is affecting them. You've equally no idea what everybody else has been through in their life which may still be proving to negatively impact them. So, reaching the goal is what's important - not who gets there first.
The key here is to value your achievements - but also value the efforts of others as they too strive towards their future achievements. They'll also get there in the end - which is what really counts. By you not acknowledging this fact, makes your achievements less impressive, vain and can begin to invalidate you as a truly 'positive person' also. This approach will help keep you balanced with how you relate to others and not lead you to dismiss or discount them and what they're trying to do.
Your accomplishments aren't the only measurement of you as a person. How you manage them and interact with others also plays a substantial role. The casual disregarding of those around you can indirectly show a degree of insecurity and self-doubt. Perhaps those who do this have a deep down feeling that they don't really deserve what they've got (because of how they got it) and live in constant fear of losing it all one day?
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
You're always going to hear lots of bits and pieces of information as you travel towards the fulfilment of your goals. It's an unavoidable fact of life as everybody has a 'success opinion' which they think is just as (if not more) valuable then anyone else's. Most of it (hopefully) will be positive. But, some of it (definitely) will be negative. How you respond to this will determine how you end up feeling about what you've chosen to do.
Generally, if the information you receive is negative then the person who's brought it could probably be just as negative too - after all why would they bring it in the first place? This should indicate that you need to fully check out what they've said - rather then just accept it without question. Doing this helps to prevent a huge amount of potential problems (especially with other people) and the subsequent regret you'll feel when you realise you've got it all wrong!
This level of control is a great strength to develop as it means you're less likely to react or respond in a thoughtless or irrational manner, when you're subjected to information that may affect you emotionally (or may even be specifically designed to affect you emotionally). You'll then be able to stay in control of how you deal with such stories and manage how you feel as a result.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
Generally, if the information you receive is negative then the person who's brought it could probably be just as negative too - after all why would they bring it in the first place? This should indicate that you need to fully check out what they've said - rather then just accept it without question. Doing this helps to prevent a huge amount of potential problems (especially with other people) and the subsequent regret you'll feel when you realise you've got it all wrong!
This level of control is a great strength to develop as it means you're less likely to react or respond in a thoughtless or irrational manner, when you're subjected to information that may affect you emotionally (or may even be specifically designed to affect you emotionally). You'll then be able to stay in control of how you deal with such stories and manage how you feel as a result.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
With great success, comes great responsibility. How you behave towards others as a 'Victor' speaks volumes about you as a person. Through this, it'll become clear whether or not the true principles of success seeking (being consistently positive no matter what) have sincerely 'sunk in' to your personality and behaviour. If it has, then you wouldn't need to see others as being lesser than you - or you greater than them..
It's easy to fall into the trap of thinking you're better than others because of your past achievements - but success seeking is not a competition - it's a challenge. So, ultimately reaching the goal is the main objective. It doesn't matter if you achieve your goals first, because you don't know what life factors are being faced by others. Besides, spending your time pondering about how well (or badly) others are doing and snooping on them to find out, is the beginning of big, big regret.
So, mocking, insulting and criticizing others at their perceived or actual lack of success (in comparison to your own) shows you're not thinking and behaving like a genuinely positive person and you've got much more work to do on yourself. It's a major signal that you're harbouring a degree of insecurity about yourself in relation to other people. If it wasn't, then why would you think and feel the need to act in this manner?
If you do find yourself behaving like this at any stage of your journey towards success, you should do all you can to recognise it and stop it as soon as possible - before the negativity of it becomes an obsession. If this happens, it could prove to be a substantial challenge to rid yourself of it and get yourself back on track.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
It's easy to fall into the trap of thinking you're better than others because of your past achievements - but success seeking is not a competition - it's a challenge. So, ultimately reaching the goal is the main objective. It doesn't matter if you achieve your goals first, because you don't know what life factors are being faced by others. Besides, spending your time pondering about how well (or badly) others are doing and snooping on them to find out, is the beginning of big, big regret.
So, mocking, insulting and criticizing others at their perceived or actual lack of success (in comparison to your own) shows you're not thinking and behaving like a genuinely positive person and you've got much more work to do on yourself. It's a major signal that you're harbouring a degree of insecurity about yourself in relation to other people. If it wasn't, then why would you think and feel the need to act in this manner?
If you do find yourself behaving like this at any stage of your journey towards success, you should do all you can to recognise it and stop it as soon as possible - before the negativity of it becomes an obsession. If this happens, it could prove to be a substantial challenge to rid yourself of it and get yourself back on track.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
When the going gets tough - the tough get going! Easily said, but a little bit harder to bring about. You've now got the best success methods available to you in following the positive lifestyle. Time itself has proven that these approaches always win in the end - as long as you're dedicated to following it - and you don't give up. It's this level of commitment, faith and belief that'll get you to the end every single time.
It'll be quite natural for you to have some doubts on your journey. It's uncharted territory that you've never experienced before, so it's understandable you may feel some uncertainty. But, as long as you keep in mind that your positive inputs will always bring about positive outputs, you'll soon begin to see success starting to happen. This will help encourage you and increase your belief that you'll eventually reach your goal.
So, don't 'beat yourself up' too much if you find yourself becoming hesitant once in a while. This will pass - as long as you don't sit around just dwelling on it. Your success is assured, as long as don't give up trying and you remember the simple success formula, positive input = positive output. Doing this, you can't fail!
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
It'll be quite natural for you to have some doubts on your journey. It's uncharted territory that you've never experienced before, so it's understandable you may feel some uncertainty. But, as long as you keep in mind that your positive inputs will always bring about positive outputs, you'll soon begin to see success starting to happen. This will help encourage you and increase your belief that you'll eventually reach your goal.
So, don't 'beat yourself up' too much if you find yourself becoming hesitant once in a while. This will pass - as long as you don't sit around just dwelling on it. Your success is assured, as long as don't give up trying and you remember the simple success formula, positive input = positive output. Doing this, you can't fail!
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
You'll most definitely begin to meet other success seekers on your journey towards 'Successville'. This is great news because it helps to remind you that you're not alone and there's support out there for you. From these acquaintances, you'll be able to form new friendships which'll help you get through the struggles you'll encounter in the future.
Once you become more amiable with each other, organising to meet up will become an obvious and natural progression. This will give you the chance to put faces to names and allow you to finally meet specific people who've directly stimulated you. Sounds like It's going to be a great event to be at! So, when you all meet at the venue, what'll it be like? What will you talk about?
This will be the perfect opportunity for you to talk about all of the progressive actions and opportunities you're working towards and also encourage each other to stay committed to reaching their goals. This should be the last place for you (or anyone) to focus on and encourage negativity or discourage following the positive lifestyle. You'll probably become quite unpopular if you choose to do so!
This inaugural event will be a fantastic opening to begin regular success support meetings (whether online or face to face) to promote positivity and an ongoing commitment to collective and individual success seeking.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
Once you become more amiable with each other, organising to meet up will become an obvious and natural progression. This will give you the chance to put faces to names and allow you to finally meet specific people who've directly stimulated you. Sounds like It's going to be a great event to be at! So, when you all meet at the venue, what'll it be like? What will you talk about?
This will be the perfect opportunity for you to talk about all of the progressive actions and opportunities you're working towards and also encourage each other to stay committed to reaching their goals. This should be the last place for you (or anyone) to focus on and encourage negativity or discourage following the positive lifestyle. You'll probably become quite unpopular if you choose to do so!
This inaugural event will be a fantastic opening to begin regular success support meetings (whether online or face to face) to promote positivity and an ongoing commitment to collective and individual success seeking.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
The opportunity to seek and achieve success is an inalienable human right. It is something that everybody deserves if they've sincerely worked hard for and striven towards. So, deliberately stopping others from achieving their dreams is comparable to a form of injustice. This not only creates anxiety and frustration for the victims - but also exposes the offenders as being bullies and heartless tormentors.
Being obliging, accommodating and helpful is the most positive way to be in this situation. You'll support other success seekers with reaching their goals - and also potentially gain new insights on reaching your own in the process. You can then use this information to progress even further then you could have before you had it. You just never know who you might meet and what you might be able to learn from them. So, everybody wins in the end!
There's enough success for everybody to be had. There's no need for you to want to stop other people from accomplishing their dreams as it's totally contrary to positive living. People who choose to do this will hopefully be a rarity on your journey and, regardless, will invariably witness the whirling 'boomerang of fate', eventually come to land squarely and fairly at their very own feet.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
Being obliging, accommodating and helpful is the most positive way to be in this situation. You'll support other success seekers with reaching their goals - and also potentially gain new insights on reaching your own in the process. You can then use this information to progress even further then you could have before you had it. You just never know who you might meet and what you might be able to learn from them. So, everybody wins in the end!
There's enough success for everybody to be had. There's no need for you to want to stop other people from accomplishing their dreams as it's totally contrary to positive living. People who choose to do this will hopefully be a rarity on your journey and, regardless, will invariably witness the whirling 'boomerang of fate', eventually come to land squarely and fairly at their very own feet.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
The act of genuinely supporting others in need will always bring about positive results. Your assistance may help them through a difficult time and you'll later get that 'good feeling' that you've used your skills to help others - as you should do! After all, why would you have been granted them, to then only keep them all to (or for) yourself?
Yes. The capabilities and talents you have are to be used to help you in life - but you've also got them to try and aid those who are less fortunate then you are, or those who cannot help themselves. These selfless acts allow you to truly value what you have and also see the interconnectedness of us all.
Positive living will bring many opportunities to help you carry out these such acts. You'll soon see that your small acts of generosity can amount to so much more, as those you help also begin to achieve success. This outcome will only be possible with the sincere kindness and goodwill that you've chosen to freely give to others.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
Yes. The capabilities and talents you have are to be used to help you in life - but you've also got them to try and aid those who are less fortunate then you are, or those who cannot help themselves. These selfless acts allow you to truly value what you have and also see the interconnectedness of us all.
Positive living will bring many opportunities to help you carry out these such acts. You'll soon see that your small acts of generosity can amount to so much more, as those you help also begin to achieve success. This outcome will only be possible with the sincere kindness and goodwill that you've chosen to freely give to others.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
You've only got a limited amount of time to do all that you need to achieve your goals. Time is always running out. The old saying, 'there's no time like the present' couldn't be more true. Doing all that you can to work towards success this very day, should always be one of your main priorities.
The positive input you're doing right now can only bring about positive output in the future. This goes without question. Bearing this fact in mind should be enough to inspire and drive you to make the most of the time you have and use each day as productively as possible.
As long as you complete all that you've planned for each day, you'll be right on track to achieving your ultimate objective. It's all in your hands.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
The positive input you're doing right now can only bring about positive output in the future. This goes without question. Bearing this fact in mind should be enough to inspire and drive you to make the most of the time you have and use each day as productively as possible.
As long as you complete all that you've planned for each day, you'll be right on track to achieving your ultimate objective. It's all in your hands.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
Taking the time to thoroughly examine your possible success options is always recommended. The last thing you want to do is make enormous effort towards doing something - only to then discover that you've completed wasted your time and (what's worse) you're possibly also now in a worse situation.
Once you've done this, you can rest assured that the choices you finally make are based upon solid facts, logic and reason - not emotion. So, there's little more else you can do to safeguard yourself at this stage. As long as you've been truly objective in this process, you should feel little hesitation with taking your next step.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
Once you've done this, you can rest assured that the choices you finally make are based upon solid facts, logic and reason - not emotion. So, there's little more else you can do to safeguard yourself at this stage. As long as you've been truly objective in this process, you should feel little hesitation with taking your next step.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
A very famous quote from the past was, 'a man is his word'. I'm sure whomever coined the phrase also meant to include women too, as this responsibility shouldn't be viewed as being solely gender-specific. It applies to us all!
The utmost proof of your commitment to positive living are your actions. They reveal all about you. Enthusing and raving about it is all well and good - but if you're not living it yourself then all of your talk will pretty much amount to little or nothing in the minds of others.
The great importance of actually doing what is expected from a success seeker, is the critical intersection point of genuine change. This is where your talk becomes action and your action becomes the achievement. Through this process, you'll be seen by others as a sincere example of how positive living can help make you (or anyone else) the best version of themself.
You'll find that your levels of confidence and self esteem will continue to grow as you repeatedly prove to yourself that you can be trusted to do all that you say. Additionally, others will also begin to show similar levels of confidence in you, as they too begin to witness just how much you can be trusted. You can't fail by 'being' your very word. It's the crest of your brand.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
The utmost proof of your commitment to positive living are your actions. They reveal all about you. Enthusing and raving about it is all well and good - but if you're not living it yourself then all of your talk will pretty much amount to little or nothing in the minds of others.
The great importance of actually doing what is expected from a success seeker, is the critical intersection point of genuine change. This is where your talk becomes action and your action becomes the achievement. Through this process, you'll be seen by others as a sincere example of how positive living can help make you (or anyone else) the best version of themself.
You'll find that your levels of confidence and self esteem will continue to grow as you repeatedly prove to yourself that you can be trusted to do all that you say. Additionally, others will also begin to show similar levels of confidence in you, as they too begin to witness just how much you can be trusted. You can't fail by 'being' your very word. It's the crest of your brand.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
Who knows how many chances you'll get to achieve your dreams in life. There's no crystal ball that can truly answer that one. But, should the question really be, how many chances do you need? Ten? Twenty?? One??? If you acknowledge that you may only need (or even only get) one opportunity to turn your whole life around, then you'll have no other choice but to give that one chance your very best shot.
Once you believe that this chance is 'the one'; you've used a logical approach to decide this and you've taken the necessary precautions to avoid and/or reduce later complications - then it should be 'all systems go'. This is that one in a million moment where you must be prepared to make optimum effort with your finances, your time and your energy to accomplish what this valuable opportunity offers you.
This will be the finest expression of your belief in the positive lifestyle you say you've committed yourself to. You've now got to 'walk the talk' - or completely shut up! The outcome is unknown - but your positive planning and positive efforts can only bring about positive results as long as you don't give up. This is the principle test of the committed success seeker who just won't take no for an answer.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
Once you believe that this chance is 'the one'; you've used a logical approach to decide this and you've taken the necessary precautions to avoid and/or reduce later complications - then it should be 'all systems go'. This is that one in a million moment where you must be prepared to make optimum effort with your finances, your time and your energy to accomplish what this valuable opportunity offers you.
This will be the finest expression of your belief in the positive lifestyle you say you've committed yourself to. You've now got to 'walk the talk' - or completely shut up! The outcome is unknown - but your positive planning and positive efforts can only bring about positive results as long as you don't give up. This is the principle test of the committed success seeker who just won't take no for an answer.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
There is little else more important than dropping whatever it is you're doing and racing towards success opportunities when they arrive. The 'right time' is always now and who knows what you may miss out on if you dawdle. This is far more important then you may initially think because the opportunity could be 'the one'. You don't want to miss out on it because you're 'too busy doing something else'.
The rationale behind this is that if you're doing your regular humdrum job (especially if you're self employed); doing some studying or even just watching the telly, you'll pretty much always be able to get back to it and carry on. You'll more than likely not miss out on too much either as you can always catch up with your studies and watch the TV re-run next week! But, all you can gain from a unique success opportunity may only come that one time. If you miss out on it, you probably won't be able to 'catch up' and will be filled with regret.
Dragging your feet and making excuses to not make haste towards those potential life changing opportunities, will only hold you back from reaching your goals and climbing to the next level. These chances come into your life for a reason. If positive input brings about positive output then (who knows), you're positive seeds planted in the past may now be finally baring their positive fruits. All you have to do now is harvest them.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
The rationale behind this is that if you're doing your regular humdrum job (especially if you're self employed); doing some studying or even just watching the telly, you'll pretty much always be able to get back to it and carry on. You'll more than likely not miss out on too much either as you can always catch up with your studies and watch the TV re-run next week! But, all you can gain from a unique success opportunity may only come that one time. If you miss out on it, you probably won't be able to 'catch up' and will be filled with regret.
Dragging your feet and making excuses to not make haste towards those potential life changing opportunities, will only hold you back from reaching your goals and climbing to the next level. These chances come into your life for a reason. If positive input brings about positive output then (who knows), you're positive seeds planted in the past may now be finally baring their positive fruits. All you have to do now is harvest them.
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
With all being said, your future (and how it pans out) really is down to you. The information within this guide shows there are actions you can take to produce positive or negative results in your life. You've simply got to set those valuable life changing goals, that you're going to then dedicate yourself to successfully achieve one day at a time - no matter what. Your success is assured once you follow this essential approach.
In life, you'll discover it's quite common to find people blaming others and/or 'bad luck' for the negativity they find in their own. It's the perfect alibi for a lack of personal effort made to take the required first steps towards success. As a result, they drift from one day to the next not really doing or achieving anything at all. This turns into weeks, months and then years of aimlessness - which then leads to resentment, bitterness - and even regret.
You can now see how easy it is to drift into a lifetime of failure - by not setting valuable goals which can then successfully achieved. But, a lifetime of success is equally available to those who do set valuable goals and then dedicate themself to successfully achieve them - no matter what. It's a perfectly balanced universal law (input = output) and it's all in your control. Success or failure - you decide!
I wish you peace, success and happiness.
In life, you'll discover it's quite common to find people blaming others and/or 'bad luck' for the negativity they find in their own. It's the perfect alibi for a lack of personal effort made to take the required first steps towards success. As a result, they drift from one day to the next not really doing or achieving anything at all. This turns into weeks, months and then years of aimlessness - which then leads to resentment, bitterness - and even regret.
You can now see how easy it is to drift into a lifetime of failure - by not setting valuable goals which can then successfully achieved. But, a lifetime of success is equally available to those who do set valuable goals and then dedicate themself to successfully achieve them - no matter what. It's a perfectly balanced universal law (input = output) and it's all in your control. Success or failure - you decide!
I wish you peace, success and happiness.